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The sugar daddy lifestyle is not always full of luxuriousness and extravagance.

It?s neither full of prostitutes or call-girls.

A real sugar daddy is not always a ?rich sugar daddy?, sometimes he?s humble, hard-working, and has a little bit of extra cash to spend on a special lady friend each month. It?s not far from the conventional dating world, it just has a cute name.

The sugar daddy lifestyle doesn?t always consist of lies which need to be fact-checked. It can be a very honest way of life, since the question of personal finance is already on the table. In-fact, there are no precursors to having the ?money? conversation even on the first date.

Here are 10 exciting and enviable traits of the sugar daddy lifestyle:

10. Your sugar baby calls you a ?Rich Sugar Daddy?, even if you?re far from it. Hey, it wins you points with her available friends.

9. You have to start adding creative physical traits to your contact list. You can only have so many Nicoles and Laurens before you have to get really specific with each one.

8. Your dance card is always full, even if you don?t want it to be. These girls are hungry and they want you, like, now!

7. The ladies finally understand what a ?No String Attached Sugar Daddy? is, no awkward explanation necessary.

6. You are Aloof for the first time in your miserable life, kudos.

5. You get to use the word ?no? for once, or twice? You don?t want to double-book sugar babies!

4. Your most annoying personality quirks are now the object of sugar baby?s desires. Don?t question it, just bask in it.

3. You answer more commonly to The Most Interesting Man in the World than even The Most Interesting Man in the World does, now that?s something!

2. Your attire has increasingly become more dapper than you ever dreamed it could. It?s okay to notice those things :)

1. You adhere to the strict ?sugar daddy code? that was set eons before you. No, you cannot talk about the ?sugar daddy code?. If you don?t know what the ?sugar daddy code? is, ask your mom.

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The sugar daddy lifestyle is not always full of luxuriousness and extravagance.

It?s neither full of prostitutes or call-girls.

A real sugar daddy is not always a ?rich sugar daddy?, sometimes he?s humble, hard-working, and has a little bit of extra cash to spend on a special lady friend each month. It?s not far from the conventional dating world, it just has a cute name.

The sugar daddy lifestyle doesn?t always consist of lies which need to be fact-checked. It can be a very honest way of life, since the question of personal finance is already on the table. In-fact, there are no precursors to having the ?money? conversation even on the first date.

Here are 10 exciting and enviable traits of the sugar daddy lifestyle:

10. Your sugar baby calls you a ?Rich Sugar Daddy?, even if you?re far from it. Hey, it wins you points with her available friends.

9. You have to start adding creative physical traits to your contact list. You can only have so many Nicoles and Laurens before you have to get really specific with each one.

8. Your dance card is always full, even if you don?t want it to be. These girls are hungry and they want you, like, now!

7. The ladies finally understand what a ?No String Attached Sugar Daddy? is, no awkward explanation necessary.

6. You are Aloof for the first time in your miserable life, kudos.

5. You get to use the word ?no? for once, or twice? You don?t want to double-book sugar babies!

4. Your most annoying personality quirks are now the object of sugar baby?s desires. Don?t question it, just bask in it.

3. You answer more commonly to The Most Interesting Man in the World than even The Most Interesting Man in the World does, now that?s something!

2. Your attire has increasingly become more dapper than you ever dreamed it could. It?s okay to notice those things :)

1. You adhere to the strict ?sugar daddy code? that was set eons before you. No, you cannot talk about the ?sugar daddy code?. If you don?t know what the ?sugar daddy code? is, ask your mom.

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There?s nothing quite like first date butterflies ? you wonder what kind of spark there will be, pray that you don?t spill food on yourself and spend hours meticulously primping. But for all that time spent getting yourself mentally and physically prepared, don?t forget to take a hard look at what your man is wearing on a first date ? even his choice of accessories can convey a distinct message about his personality.

As a fashionista and the community manager for Loveawake, the premier online community for singles, I know about the importance of a proper first date wardrobe. I?m here to help you read between the lines ? or paisley or plaid ? to learn whether he?s second date material or just a fling.

Hats: Obviously there are far too many types of hats to make a sweeping generalization. Though hats are a distinct way for a guy to show his personality, they can sometimes scream for too much attention on a first date. Venues where a hat is OK: outdoor sporting event (baseball cap), speakeasy (fedora), poetry slam (beret), skiing (beanie) or monster truck rally (trucker hat).

Nice watch: Some guys? idea of a ?nice? watch is simply that it ticks and doesn?t have a superhero on it. If your man flashes a classy timepiece, it shows he is traditional and wants to put his best foot forward.

Scarf: In spring and summer: Prissy. You?ll probably have to put your coat down for him to cross a puddle. In winter: Mature. It takes a big man to admit he?s cold.

Sunglasses: He thinks he?s too cool for school. It?s important to look into your date?s eyes when you?re getting to know them, and let?s face it, it?s not like he had to dodge a crowd of paparazzi on his way to meet you. Occasion where sunglasses are OK on a date: You?re outside and squinting uncomfortably to see your love interest.

Cufflinks: Let me just wipe my drool? ah yes, cufflinks ? they show ambition. Not a lot of guys own them, even if dress wear requires them. They?re truly an investment piece, and show he cares about his appearance and where he?s going in life.

Umbrella: Meticulous. If he thought to check the weather before your date and made the effort to lug an umbrella with him, he?s clearly a planner ? and a keeper! Added bonus: there?s room for two under that umbrella.

Suspenders: He thinks he?s unique. Unless he?s Steve Urkel, suspenders are a guy?s way of showing how ?different? and cool he is. He?ll try to sell you a story about how he found these ol? suspenders at a thrift store in Williamsburg, but trust me, he spent $500 to look that vintage.

Bracelet: Sentimental. Do you know any men who wear bracelets that don?t have some sort of significant emotional meaning? Ask him about it as an icebreaker and get to know what makes him tick.

The bottom line is that you have to give any man points for accessorizing ? it?s so much easier to just throw on a shirt and jeans rather than go that extra mile. When a guy puts in the effort, take notice of these non-verbal cues to see if he could be your perfect match.

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There?s nothing quite like first date butterflies ? you wonder what kind of spark there will be, pray that you don?t spill food on yourself and spend hours meticulously primping. But for all that time spent getting yourself mentally and physically prepared, don?t forget to take a hard look at what your man is wearing on a first date ? even his choice of accessories can convey a distinct message about his personality.

As a fashionista and the community manager for Loveawake, the premier online community for singles, I know about the importance of a proper first date wardrobe. I?m here to help you read between the lines ? or paisley or plaid ? to learn whether he?s second date material or just a fling.

Hats: Obviously there are far too many types of hats to make a sweeping generalization. Though hats are a distinct way for a guy to show his personality, they can sometimes scream for too much attention on a first date. Venues where a hat is OK: outdoor sporting event (baseball cap), speakeasy (fedora), poetry slam (beret), skiing (beanie) or monster truck rally (trucker hat).

Nice watch: Some guys? idea of a ?nice? watch is simply that it ticks and doesn?t have a superhero on it. If your man flashes a classy timepiece, it shows he is traditional and wants to put his best foot forward.

Scarf: In spring and summer: Prissy. You?ll probably have to put your coat down for him to cross a puddle. In winter: Mature. It takes a big man to admit he?s cold.

Sunglasses: He thinks he?s too cool for school. It?s important to look into your date?s eyes when you?re getting to know them, and let?s face it, it?s not like he had to dodge a crowd of paparazzi on his way to meet you. Occasion where sunglasses are OK on a date: You?re outside and squinting uncomfortably to see your love interest.

Cufflinks: Let me just wipe my drool? ah yes, cufflinks ? they show ambition. Not a lot of guys own them, even if dress wear requires them. They?re truly an investment piece, and show he cares about his appearance and where he?s going in life.

Umbrella: Meticulous. If he thought to check the weather before your date and made the effort to lug an umbrella with him, he?s clearly a planner ? and a keeper! Added bonus: there?s room for two under that umbrella.

Suspenders: He thinks he?s unique. Unless he?s Steve Urkel, suspenders are a guy?s way of showing how ?different? and cool he is. He?ll try to sell you a story about how he found these ol? suspenders at a thrift store in Williamsburg, but trust me, he spent $500 to look that vintage.

Bracelet: Sentimental. Do you know any men who wear bracelets that don?t have some sort of significant emotional meaning? Ask him about it as an icebreaker and get to know what makes him tick.

The bottom line is that you have to give any man points for accessorizing ? it?s so much easier to just throw on a shirt and jeans rather than go that extra mile. When a guy puts in the effort, take notice of these non-verbal cues to see if he could be your perfect match.

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How much should you spend on a first date? Our recommendation will keep your wallet safe while helping you find a great girl.

We weighed in on the age-old, controversial topic ?Who should pay?? with an earlier article ? in short, we think the guy should pay because it gives him more useful information about his date than if he chooses not to and saves his him money in the long run. Now, since we?re assuming we guys are paying, we?ll give our perspective on how much money we should spend on the first date.

Also, to be clear, we recommend going on a Time Limited Coffee Date (TLCD) before going on a ?proper? first date. On TLCDs, buying yourself and her a drink shouldn?t cost more than $10 US, even less is better. Keep it simple, keep it inexpensive, keep it short.

Two big reasons:

  1. No use investing a lot of time, energy, money and emotion in a stranger who we may never see again. Sitting down over coffee for 45-75 minutes gives both parties tons of information that they?ll use to decide whether or not to send / accept any more date offers.
  2. By keeping TLCDs and dates 1-10 inexpensive, it will anger and drive away gold-diggers + other women with nefarious plans for you bank account. Save the more involved and expensive plans for girls who you?ve put through the screening process

From the first proper date after the TLCD about the 10th or 11th date, we recommend keeping it under $20-$30 a date. This might get a little tricky, as we also recommend including a fun, exciting activity AND a meal while planning dates.

So how do we keep things within budget those first ten dates?

Activities: keep the activities free / cheap. Here?s a slightly less personal list of the activities we recommend for the first ten dates: frisbee, badmitton, ping-pong, billiards, darts, ice skating, arcades / game centers, playing catch, batting cages, putt-putt golf and the driving range. It doesn?t matter if you don?t have any skill in these things ? if she?s into you, it?ll be hilarious and fun anyway.

Meals: if the activities are free, then it should be easier to keep the meal portion in the $10-20 for two range. Here?s an extremely personal, subjective list of the kinds of meals I like for those first ten dates: sandwiches (about $10 for two), picnic (goes good with free activities like frisbee, groceries for picnic food can be between $5-20), or ice cream (although it?s not a proper ?meal? it still serves the same function on a date, about $5-15 depending on the store).

If she?s generous, she?ll offer to pitch in. Accept and let her from the second date on if she offers, but NEVER assume she will. Always bring enough cash for your date plan for both yourself and the girl. One way to let her pay is this:

You: (Paying for an activity or meal)

Her: Oh! How much?

You: Don?t worry, I got it.

Her: Really?! Thanks!

You: You can buy me a new car next time. (She probably laughs) Or, you can get the next meal. That works too.

Her: Ok!

After the 10th date or so, it?s up to you and your budget on how much you spend on date. If she?s proven over the course of several months that she?s totally into, she has a great core personality that matches with yours, and continues to bring her A-Game to every date, then occasionally taking her out for an expensive dinner or giving her a gift is probably ok. Until then, run a tight ship.

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How much should you spend on a first date? Our recommendation will keep your wallet safe while helping you find a great girl.

We weighed in on the age-old, controversial topic ?Who should pay?? with an earlier article ? in short, we think the guy should pay because it gives him more useful information about his date than if he chooses not to and saves his him money in the long run. Now, since we?re assuming we guys are paying, we?ll give our perspective on how much money we should spend on the first date.

Also, to be clear, we recommend going on a Time Limited Coffee Date (TLCD) before going on a ?proper? first date. On TLCDs, buying yourself and her a drink shouldn?t cost more than $10 US, even less is better. Keep it simple, keep it inexpensive, keep it short.

Two big reasons:

  1. No use investing a lot of time, energy, money and emotion in a stranger who we may never see again. Sitting down over coffee for 45-75 minutes gives both parties tons of information that they?ll use to decide whether or not to send / accept any more date offers.
  2. By keeping TLCDs and dates 1-10 inexpensive, it will anger and drive away gold-diggers + other women with nefarious plans for you bank account. Save the more involved and expensive plans for girls who you?ve put through the screening process

From the first proper date after the TLCD about the 10th or 11th date, we recommend keeping it under $20-$30 a date. This might get a little tricky, as we also recommend including a fun, exciting activity AND a meal while planning dates.

So how do we keep things within budget those first ten dates?

Activities: keep the activities free / cheap. Here?s a slightly less personal list of the activities we recommend for the first ten dates: frisbee, badmitton, ping-pong, billiards, darts, ice skating, arcades / game centers, playing catch, batting cages, putt-putt golf and the driving range. It doesn?t matter if you don?t have any skill in these things ? if she?s into you, it?ll be hilarious and fun anyway.

Meals: if the activities are free, then it should be easier to keep the meal portion in the $10-20 for two range. Here?s an extremely personal, subjective list of the kinds of meals I like for those first ten dates: sandwiches (about $10 for two), picnic (goes good with free activities like frisbee, groceries for picnic food can be between $5-20), or ice cream (although it?s not a proper ?meal? it still serves the same function on a date, about $5-15 depending on the store).

If she?s generous, she?ll offer to pitch in. Accept and let her from the second date on if she offers, but NEVER assume she will. Always bring enough cash for your date plan for both yourself and the girl. One way to let her pay is this:

You: (Paying for an activity or meal)

Her: Oh! How much?

You: Don?t worry, I got it.

Her: Really?! Thanks!

You: You can buy me a new car next time. (She probably laughs) Or, you can get the next meal. That works too.

Her: Ok!

After the 10th date or so, it?s up to you and your budget on how much you spend on date. If she?s proven over the course of several months that she?s totally into, she has a great core personality that matches with yours, and continues to bring her A-Game to every date, then occasionally taking her out for an expensive dinner or giving her a gift is probably ok. Until then, run a tight ship.

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Everyone loves having a fun, hilarious time with their date. Today you can read a few huge tips to help you build the kind of easy-going relationships filled with laughter with the high value women you want.

How To Start Making Girls Laugh on Dates

We already have covered ?why? making your dates laugh is important. So let?s get down to the general idea of ?how? to be funny and make them laugh.

Before continuing, there?s a few things to keep in mind. First, humor is a massive topic. As always, test out what works for you personally ? find your own personal style of humor and making people laugh. What works for us may not be your cup of tea. With that being said, here are some pointers on how to build your A-Ha-Ha Game.

Pro Tip: It?s Easier To Make Some Girls Laugh Than Others

To get your dates laughing, you need to start off by talking to lots of women and finding ones that like you. Nothing begins until you find one that likes you right from the kickoff.

Remember that if she?s into you, she?ll laugh at jokes everyone else might think are lame (yourself included). This is good ? she?s one of the ones we?re looking for. Likewise, you could be spouting some of the most hilarious comedic gold ever to grace this planet, but if she?s just not into you, she?ll be able to keep a straight face the whole.

If she?s not laughing, you?re not doing it right? Though it may not be your fault. First things first ? find the right women to work with.

Some Tips For Sharpening Your Wit

Once you?ve found one that gives you her attention, avoid heavy topics (war, religion, politics, complaining) while sticking to light, funny and playful topics.

We like witty quips, obvious misunderstandings, deadpan psyche-outs, absurd juxtapositions, cultural references and even some puns, but what works for us may not work for you.

If it gets her laughing, you?re doing it right.

To further boost your skills, we recommend joining an improv comedy group. Check your local theaters and university. Also, while Toastmasters teaches speaking and presentation skills, it?s also a great place to give your funny bone a work out.

Practice not only with your dates, but with your guy friends as well. Give each other typical questions women ask when they first meet you or on first dates (ie, ?Nice to meet you, you from around here??) and try to make each other laugh with your answers.

Bust out a notebook, pens, pencils, colored markers and watch some pro comedians. Seriously engage in what they?re doing ? don?t just sit there and laugh. While it might be more fun to just passively watching them because they?re funny, it doesn?t teach squat. Bring a level of effort and consciousness to the project.

Learning humor isn?t always pretty ? jokes crash and burn, then pass on to joke-heaven. And it?s all good, because as we practice more and more, making girls laugh becomes more instinctual.

Our minds are always searching, always looking for some unexpected, ridiculous angle to spin and turn any situation into something hilarious. Just like playing outfield, doing calculus or meeting and dating high value women, humor is a learn-able, practicable skill in which the rewards are dictated by the amount of effort put into the endeavor.

So get up, get out, go meet more women every day, and practice making girls laugh.

Does Making Girls Laugh Cause Attraction? Or Does It Even Matter?

Making girls laugh is one of the most important, and least understood parts of dating. Join us to learning the truth behind making girls laugh and dating.

Before answering why making girls laugh is important, we need to take a look at the whole ?laughing doesn?t cause attraction? thing that is so common in men?s dating advice.

In a sense, we agree that humor isn?t a ?turn-on? for women in the sense of ?if she doesn?t like you, making her laugh will change everything.? That?s just not how it works.

However, humor IS an extremely valuable and versatile tool for meeting women, dating and relating ? we?ll get to why in a bit.

For now, all of our research points to this one overarching idea ? attraction just doesn?t come into the picture as a concept that is useful for meeting and dating high quality women. In many ways, it?s a bygone conclusion. You find an overload of junky info about ?sparking attraction,? ?building attraction,? ?Displaying high value to create attraction? and a whole bunch of other weird stuff that we?ve found simply isn?t even necessary for guys who want to meet and date really hot women. We?ve found that guys can get a whole lot better with women fast by dropping the concept of ?sparking attraction?

But Isn?t The Goal Of Making Girls Laugh Attraction?

Who ever said attraction was the end goal?

Just the opposite, in fact.

Attraction is actually the ticket to the show ? without some mutual chemistry between both you and the girl, nothing can start.

That?s why we don?t bother with girls who aren?t into us right from the start ? since our research shows that screening out women who aren?t attracted to us actually makes it much easier for normal guys to meet and date *really* hot women who actually like them. No need to even worry about the whole ?building attraction,? ?sparking attraction? or any other ?attraction? related issue besides how she receives us (or not) when we talk to her.

The ones who are into us have a set pattern of behavior that?s far more useful than slapping on the label ?attraction.? For example, the ones who are into us will stop and talk, give us their phone numbers, accept date offers and show up to the date.

And the craziest part?

Check this out: When girls are really into you, making girls laugh becomes incredibly easy.

We don?t know how, we don?t know why, but we?re subjectively funnier to both our dates, ourselves, and the people around when the girl with us is really into us.

Now, we?ve removed ?attraction? from the GOAL part of the equation, let?s return to the whole ?laughing doesn?t cause attraction? bit. While that may be accurate, it doesn?t matter since it?s easier to date high quality women by not dealing with issues related to ?sparking attraction.?

We highly recommend making girls laugh on dates for the following reasons:

Making Girls Laugh Is A Versatile Skill

Humor supplements and improves every type of ?game,? no matter what it is, be it fuzzy-top-hat-pickup-artist game, ALPHA-TOUGH-GUY-SMASH game, frat-boy-pretending-to-be-a-firetruck ?natural? game, or simply meeting a lot of women as an Amazing Man.

No matter the image, no matter the game model, no matter how you?re meeting women ? humor is pure gravy! It makes things better no matter how it?s served!

Likewise, few life skills can serve us better in all situations than learning how to make people laugh ? and while it?s super effective in the realm of dating, it goes way beyond too. Learning how to make people laugh in general is a great life skill to build ? when you?re out meeting women or out on dates, it?s a perfect opportunity to give making her laugh a spin.

Making Girls Laugh Makes Everything Easier

As we?ve said above, making girls laugh doesn?t necessarily mean more or less attraction. Since we recommend screening out women who aren?t into you right at the start, ?attraction? doesn?t matter.

At all.

So, while there may be a bunch of pseudo-scientific evidence that supports the idea that ?attraction needs to be sparked,? our research tracking stats while talking to 30 women a day shows that attraction is either there or it?s not. And IF it is there, then making her laugh will simply amplify it. If it?s not there then making her laugh (along with pretty much everything else) will do nothing. Worst of all, trying to ?spark attraction? with a girl who already likes you will simply create a whole mess of problems that never needed to exist in the first place (most of the problems that the pick up artists deal with stem from this).

So how can you smoothly let an interaction with a beautiful woman move forward without needing to worry about ?sparking attraction? or messing things us by trying to ?spark attraction??

Make her laugh!

We bond with those we laugh with. We?re more interested in them. Laughing leads to simply having a fun, relaxing, happy, hilarious time with our dates.

Laughter is like the lubricant that keeps this all smooth. When she?s laughing and when we?re laughing, we?re really enjoying life as it is, right there and then. That is, unless your goals in life don?t involve laughing and having a good time with the people (in which case you might want to consider re-evaluating your goals).

Making Her Laugh Neutralizes Her Trying To Be Serious

Serious is NOT funny.

When guys get all serious and vomit their personal information all their dates, it totally drives her interest in them down.

Like, really far down.

So far down, it might be deep enough to awaken a Balrog in the Mines of Moria (Hooray Lord of the Rings references!).

As such, answering her information eliciting questions (?What do you do?? / ?Do you always say that to girls??) seriously tends not to work in our favor. Basically, in the vast majority of cases, talking ?serious-talk? to a woman is a sure-fire way to mess things up with her whether it?s during the approach or during a date.

MAKE HER LAUGH.

Witty is best, but if you can?t do witty yet, respond with something off the wall.

Get absurd. Get ridiculous. Not so ridiculous that she isn?t laughing (remember, making her laugh is always the point of anything you say).

Look to cultivate an attitude towards your dates that?s closer to messing with a goofy little sister than getting all caught up in SRSBSNS and getting hypnotized by her nice body. Once again, all this will NOT work however if the woman you?re with has an agenda, isn?t into you or the two of you simply don?t share chemistry. And that?s okay! It simply means you have to get up, get out and go meet more women ? the basic building block and key to dating success for us all.

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Everyone loves having a fun, hilarious time with their date. Today you can read a few huge tips to help you build the kind of easy-going relationships filled with laughter with the high value women you want.

How To Start Making Girls Laugh on Dates

We already have covered ?why? making your dates laugh is important. So let?s get down to the general idea of ?how? to be funny and make them laugh.

Before continuing, there?s a few things to keep in mind. First, humor is a massive topic. As always, test out what works for you personally ? find your own personal style of humor and making people laugh. What works for us may not be your cup of tea. With that being said, here are some pointers on how to build your A-Ha-Ha Game.

Pro Tip: It?s Easier To Make Some Girls Laugh Than Others

To get your dates laughing, you need to start off by talking to lots of women and finding ones that like you. Nothing begins until you find one that likes you right from the kickoff.

Remember that if she?s into you, she?ll laugh at jokes everyone else might think are lame (yourself included). This is good ? she?s one of the ones we?re looking for. Likewise, you could be spouting some of the most hilarious comedic gold ever to grace this planet, but if she?s just not into you, she?ll be able to keep a straight face the whole.

If she?s not laughing, you?re not doing it right? Though it may not be your fault. First things first ? find the right women to work with.

Some Tips For Sharpening Your Wit

Once you?ve found one that gives you her attention, avoid heavy topics (war, religion, politics, complaining) while sticking to light, funny and playful topics.

We like witty quips, obvious misunderstandings, deadpan psyche-outs, absurd juxtapositions, cultural references and even some puns, but what works for us may not work for you.

If it gets her laughing, you?re doing it right.

To further boost your skills, we recommend joining an improv comedy group. Check your local theaters and university. Also, while Toastmasters teaches speaking and presentation skills, it?s also a great place to give your funny bone a work out.

Practice not only with your dates, but with your guy friends as well. Give each other typical questions women ask when they first meet you or on first dates (ie, ?Nice to meet you, you from around here??) and try to make each other laugh with your answers.

Bust out a notebook, pens, pencils, colored markers and watch some pro comedians. Seriously engage in what they?re doing ? don?t just sit there and laugh. While it might be more fun to just passively watching them because they?re funny, it doesn?t teach squat. Bring a level of effort and consciousness to the project.

Learning humor isn?t always pretty ? jokes crash and burn, then pass on to joke-heaven. And it?s all good, because as we practice more and more, making girls laugh becomes more instinctual.

Our minds are always searching, always looking for some unexpected, ridiculous angle to spin and turn any situation into something hilarious. Just like playing outfield, doing calculus or meeting and dating high value women, humor is a learn-able, practicable skill in which the rewards are dictated by the amount of effort put into the endeavor.

So get up, get out, go meet more women every day, and practice making girls laugh.

Does Making Girls Laugh Cause Attraction? Or Does It Even Matter?

Making girls laugh is one of the most important, and least understood parts of dating. Join us to learning the truth behind making girls laugh and dating.

Before answering why making girls laugh is important, we need to take a look at the whole ?laughing doesn?t cause attraction? thing that is so common in men?s dating advice.

In a sense, we agree that humor isn?t a ?turn-on? for women in the sense of ?if she doesn?t like you, making her laugh will change everything.? That?s just not how it works.

However, humor IS an extremely valuable and versatile tool for meeting women, dating and relating ? we?ll get to why in a bit.

For now, all of our research points to this one overarching idea ? attraction just doesn?t come into the picture as a concept that is useful for meeting and dating high quality women. In many ways, it?s a bygone conclusion. You find an overload of junky info about ?sparking attraction,? ?building attraction,? ?Displaying high value to create attraction? and a whole bunch of other weird stuff that we?ve found simply isn?t even necessary for guys who want to meet and date really hot women. We?ve found that guys can get a whole lot better with women fast by dropping the concept of ?sparking attraction?

But Isn?t The Goal Of Making Girls Laugh Attraction?

Who ever said attraction was the end goal?

Just the opposite, in fact.

Attraction is actually the ticket to the show ? without some mutual chemistry between both you and the girl, nothing can start.

That?s why we don?t bother with girls who aren?t into us right from the start ? since our research shows that screening out women who aren?t attracted to us actually makes it much easier for normal guys to meet and date *really* hot women who actually like them. No need to even worry about the whole ?building attraction,? ?sparking attraction? or any other ?attraction? related issue besides how she receives us (or not) when we talk to her.

The ones who are into us have a set pattern of behavior that?s far more useful than slapping on the label ?attraction.? For example, the ones who are into us will stop and talk, give us their phone numbers, accept date offers and show up to the date.

And the craziest part?

Check this out: When girls are really into you, making girls laugh becomes incredibly easy.

We don?t know how, we don?t know why, but we?re subjectively funnier to both our dates, ourselves, and the people around when the girl with us is really into us.

Now, we?ve removed ?attraction? from the GOAL part of the equation, let?s return to the whole ?laughing doesn?t cause attraction? bit. While that may be accurate, it doesn?t matter since it?s easier to date high quality women by not dealing with issues related to ?sparking attraction.?

We highly recommend making girls laugh on dates for the following reasons:

Making Girls Laugh Is A Versatile Skill

Humor supplements and improves every type of ?game,? no matter what it is, be it fuzzy-top-hat-pickup-artist game, ALPHA-TOUGH-GUY-SMASH game, frat-boy-pretending-to-be-a-firetruck ?natural? game, or simply meeting a lot of women as an Amazing Man.

No matter the image, no matter the game model, no matter how you?re meeting women ? humor is pure gravy! It makes things better no matter how it?s served!

Likewise, few life skills can serve us better in all situations than learning how to make people laugh ? and while it?s super effective in the realm of dating, it goes way beyond too. Learning how to make people laugh in general is a great life skill to build ? when you?re out meeting women or out on dates, it?s a perfect opportunity to give making her laugh a spin.

Making Girls Laugh Makes Everything Easier

As we?ve said above, making girls laugh doesn?t necessarily mean more or less attraction. Since we recommend screening out women who aren?t into you right at the start, ?attraction? doesn?t matter.

At all.

So, while there may be a bunch of pseudo-scientific evidence that supports the idea that ?attraction needs to be sparked,? our research tracking stats while talking to 30 women a day shows that attraction is either there or it?s not. And IF it is there, then making her laugh will simply amplify it. If it?s not there then making her laugh (along with pretty much everything else) will do nothing. Worst of all, trying to ?spark attraction? with a girl who already likes you will simply create a whole mess of problems that never needed to exist in the first place (most of the problems that the pick up artists deal with stem from this).

So how can you smoothly let an interaction with a beautiful woman move forward without needing to worry about ?sparking attraction? or messing things us by trying to ?spark attraction??

Make her laugh!

We bond with those we laugh with. We?re more interested in them. Laughing leads to simply having a fun, relaxing, happy, hilarious time with our dates.

Laughter is like the lubricant that keeps this all smooth. When she?s laughing and when we?re laughing, we?re really enjoying life as it is, right there and then. That is, unless your goals in life don?t involve laughing and having a good time with the people (in which case you might want to consider re-evaluating your goals).

Making Her Laugh Neutralizes Her Trying To Be Serious

Serious is NOT funny.

When guys get all serious and vomit their personal information all their dates, it totally drives her interest in them down.

Like, really far down.

So far down, it might be deep enough to awaken a Balrog in the Mines of Moria (Hooray Lord of the Rings references!).

As such, answering her information eliciting questions (?What do you do?? / ?Do you always say that to girls??) seriously tends not to work in our favor. Basically, in the vast majority of cases, talking ?serious-talk? to a woman is a sure-fire way to mess things up with her whether it?s during the approach or during a date.

MAKE HER LAUGH.

Witty is best, but if you can?t do witty yet, respond with something off the wall.

Get absurd. Get ridiculous. Not so ridiculous that she isn?t laughing (remember, making her laugh is always the point of anything you say).

Look to cultivate an attitude towards your dates that?s closer to messing with a goofy little sister than getting all caught up in SRSBSNS and getting hypnotized by her nice body. Once again, all this will NOT work however if the woman you?re with has an agenda, isn?t into you or the two of you simply don?t share chemistry. And that?s okay! It simply means you have to get up, get out and go meet more women ? the basic building block and key to dating success for us all.

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So how do you follow up on all those phone numbers you got by now that you?re bringing so many new women into your life using the advice on Loveawake blog?

Without getting into the nitty-gritty details of our comprehensive system for dealing with calling a girl, here are 3 simple tips to keep in mind. These are applicable whenever you call a girl to ask her out and schedule a date, and they?re probably useful in most other calling situations as well.

Always Smile When Calling A Girl

It?s important to smile on the phone. As the old saying goes, ?They can hear your smile over the phone.? While calling, we want to give off a friendly vibe without getting caught up in small talk or conversation. We want the call to be short and to the point ? schedule the date in a friendly, prompt manner, while saving all the questions, answers, jokes, humor and stories for the date itself. Best way to do that is to simply smile while you?re on the phone, and allow your voice to carry that levity with it.

Look In The Mirror When Calling A Girl

The next tip for calling a girl is to look in the mirror. This helps because you can make sure you are relaxed and speaking naturally. Seeing yourself smiling will help you internalize the kind of positive vocal tonality that you project into the phone call. Or, if you?re not smiling, looking at your dour face will quickly give you the swift kick to the pants you need to remember to show them pearly whites. Watch yourself, relax your shoulders and smile.

Stand Up While Talking On The Phone

Standing while talking gives you more authority, resonance and voice projection. It also makes it easier to breathe properly and thus speak properly. Stand up with your phone in hand, face the mirror, smile, dial her number, speak slowly with a friendly tone and keep the conversations short, polite and to-the-point. Schedule a date with her (or not, depending on her response), then get off the phone. Write down anything important about the phone call and then go to the next date prospect in your list of numbers and give her a call.

Repeat this until you?ve called all the numbers on your prospect list, then head out, go meet some more women and hustle some new phone numbers.

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So how do you follow up on all those phone numbers you got by now that you?re bringing so many new women into your life using the advice on Loveawake blog?

Without getting into the nitty-gritty details of our comprehensive system for dealing with calling a girl, here are 3 simple tips to keep in mind. These are applicable whenever you call a girl to ask her out and schedule a date, and they?re probably useful in most other calling situations as well.

Always Smile When Calling A Girl

It?s important to smile on the phone. As the old saying goes, ?They can hear your smile over the phone.? While calling, we want to give off a friendly vibe without getting caught up in small talk or conversation. We want the call to be short and to the point ? schedule the date in a friendly, prompt manner, while saving all the questions, answers, jokes, humor and stories for the date itself. Best way to do that is to simply smile while you?re on the phone, and allow your voice to carry that levity with it.

Look In The Mirror When Calling A Girl

The next tip for calling a girl is to look in the mirror. This helps because you can make sure you are relaxed and speaking naturally. Seeing yourself smiling will help you internalize the kind of positive vocal tonality that you project into the phone call. Or, if you?re not smiling, looking at your dour face will quickly give you the swift kick to the pants you need to remember to show them pearly whites. Watch yourself, relax your shoulders and smile.

Stand Up While Talking On The Phone

Standing while talking gives you more authority, resonance and voice projection. It also makes it easier to breathe properly and thus speak properly. Stand up with your phone in hand, face the mirror, smile, dial her number, speak slowly with a friendly tone and keep the conversations short, polite and to-the-point. Schedule a date with her (or not, depending on her response), then get off the phone. Write down anything important about the phone call and then go to the next date prospect in your list of numbers and give her a call.

Repeat this until you?ve called all the numbers on your prospect list, then head out, go meet some more women and hustle some new phone numbers.

" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1593436899) } [5]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(44) "What To Do When A Girl Ignores Your Approach" ["link"]=> string(83) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/what-to-do-when-a-girl-ignores-your-approach/" ["comments"]=> string(91) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/what-to-do-when-a-girl-ignores-your-approach/#respond" ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Mon, 29 Jun 2020 13:15:46 +0000" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(9) "Alex Wise" } ["category"]=> string(320) "Dating Adviceadvice for approaching a girlapproach beautiful womenapproaching a girlapproaching a womanApproaching Womendating statisticshow to approach a girl on the streethow to approach a girl you don't knowspreadsheetspreadsheet datingstatistical analysistaking statisticsWhat To Do When A Girl Ignores Your Approach" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=5283" ["description"]=> string(294) "How can you deal with girls who ignoring you and walking away when you approach them? Since all of our advice based on going out every day and approaching *lots* of women, we?ve come up with a handful of ways to deal girls walking away from us when we approach. Keep in mind that this […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(6048) "

How can you deal with girls who ignoring you and walking away when you approach them?

Since all of our advice based on going out every day and approaching *lots* of women, we?ve come up with a handful of ways to deal girls walking away from us when we approach.

Keep in mind that this advice is specific to approaching women in places with high pedestrian traffic (streets, shopping centers, malls, etc.) but is just as useful anytime a girl ignores your approach.

What To Do When A Girl Ignores Your Approach: Understand the benefits of women walking away from you

Arguing with the reality of a situation doesn?t change it.

When a woman walks away, she?s gone.

It?s reality.

Move on to the next one with haste.

Guys who insist on lingering, analyzing and moping around when she doesn?t stop to talk merely make getting success with women much harder.

We look at getting depressed not as a mental state, but as a lack of taking the right action. Depression is a lack of action; it?s stagnation. If you at the word ?depress,? you can break it down to ?de? and ?press? ? ?de,? the prefix for ?not,? and ?press,? as in ?press on,? or ?press forward.? By not pressing on, guys stop taking action, get stagnant and as a result feel all black-trenchcoaty.

The way to avoid or counter it is to ? TAKE ACTION.

Simply continue on and go talk to the next attractive woman you see, while realizing that every woman who doesn?t talk to you saves time, money, stress, heartache and headache in the long run?

Let?s face it, if she was interested in you, she would have stopped to talk. Our research has proven this, thousands and thousands of times.

Getting caught up with women who aren?t into you is one of the most painful experiences guys can face. Be happy she had the courtesy to let you know right off the bat that you weren?t the answer to her romantic dreams.

That?s great news, because now you don?t have to marry her!

For guys who insist on persuading a woman who isn?t fundamentally interested in them to stop, talk, give up their number, drag them out on a date and push to get sex from them, they?re setting themselves up for failure every time their ?persuasion skills? don?t go their way.

These guys get lots of false positives from women which reinforces the same behavior that will set them up to really feel bad when they finally meet a girl they really like and she dumps him. These false positives usually come in the form of women who aren?t actually into them but are willing to listen, give their numbers, and go on dates with these simply because of they?re working the dancing monkey angle so hard.

On the other hand, when you simply talk to women to identify which ones like you, then you can start to see how every woman that doesn?t talk to you brings you closer and closer to one who does. This is the kind of woman who will be very happy to do everything in her power to make your life more happy and exciting.

Likewise, if she wasn?t into your image enough to stop and talk, then you weren?t her type at that particular time and place ? that?s good. When women walk away from you without so much as giving the time of day, it allows you to both accept no from women and say no to women.

Talking to massive amounts of women and having massive amounts of women walk away from you puts you in good company. Babe Ruth struck out 1,330 times while hitting 714 homeruns. Michael Jordan missed over 9000 shots and lost more than 300 games in his career.

Being able to accept when a woman walks away from you is the path to a true abundance reality? And not just some feel good wishy-washy magic thinking abundance mentality? We?re talking about Reality. Men of true abundance who are more than happy to let women go who aren?t making things go smoothly with them.

When women walk away, it?s a useful opportunity to make more useful excuses that don?t have the world revolving around precious little you. Egocentric excuses like ?she doesn?t like MEEEEEEE? often miss the other 5,324,926 reasons why an individual girl might not have talked to you.

Remember, it takes two to tango.

Ultimately, we don?t know why she ignored us (unless you?re psychic). So if guys insist on attaching ridiculous stories to the realities of the situation, then they might as well attach resourceful, useful, liberating stories too.

If there?s nothing there between you two, there?s nothing there. A is A. If she blows right by without even glancing at you, wish her well and move on to the next hot woman.

Likewise, external excuses turn into opportunities to fix up, adjust and test different variables in your approach. Example being ?Must be that I didn?t shave today, that?s why she didn?t stop and talk to me.? Simply shaving, then getting back out the next with your smooth, freshly shaven face gets rid of that external excuse. In fact, we can even change that excuse changes to the more productive, ?I?ll shave properly tomorrow that so I can know whether or not that actually does have any effect on meeting women or not when I head out again tomorrow.?

So in order to improve your ability to deal with women ignoring your approaches, first accept reality. A good way to do so is to take stats talking to women over the course of a month. Record how many women talked to, how many stopped to talk, how many gave their phone numbers, etc. and get a baseline for your engage rate.

Then you know what reality is. No need for crazy excuses or stories. Makes it a lot easier to work out and improve from there.

" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(88) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/what-to-do-when-a-girl-ignores-your-approach/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(294) "How can you deal with girls who ignoring you and walking away when you approach them? Since all of our advice based on going out every day and approaching *lots* of women, we?ve come up with a handful of ways to deal girls walking away from us when we approach. Keep in mind that this […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(6048) "

How can you deal with girls who ignoring you and walking away when you approach them?

Since all of our advice based on going out every day and approaching *lots* of women, we?ve come up with a handful of ways to deal girls walking away from us when we approach.

Keep in mind that this advice is specific to approaching women in places with high pedestrian traffic (streets, shopping centers, malls, etc.) but is just as useful anytime a girl ignores your approach.

What To Do When A Girl Ignores Your Approach: Understand the benefits of women walking away from you

Arguing with the reality of a situation doesn?t change it.

When a woman walks away, she?s gone.

It?s reality.

Move on to the next one with haste.

Guys who insist on lingering, analyzing and moping around when she doesn?t stop to talk merely make getting success with women much harder.

We look at getting depressed not as a mental state, but as a lack of taking the right action. Depression is a lack of action; it?s stagnation. If you at the word ?depress,? you can break it down to ?de? and ?press? ? ?de,? the prefix for ?not,? and ?press,? as in ?press on,? or ?press forward.? By not pressing on, guys stop taking action, get stagnant and as a result feel all black-trenchcoaty.

The way to avoid or counter it is to ? TAKE ACTION.

Simply continue on and go talk to the next attractive woman you see, while realizing that every woman who doesn?t talk to you saves time, money, stress, heartache and headache in the long run?

Let?s face it, if she was interested in you, she would have stopped to talk. Our research has proven this, thousands and thousands of times.

Getting caught up with women who aren?t into you is one of the most painful experiences guys can face. Be happy she had the courtesy to let you know right off the bat that you weren?t the answer to her romantic dreams.

That?s great news, because now you don?t have to marry her!

For guys who insist on persuading a woman who isn?t fundamentally interested in them to stop, talk, give up their number, drag them out on a date and push to get sex from them, they?re setting themselves up for failure every time their ?persuasion skills? don?t go their way.

These guys get lots of false positives from women which reinforces the same behavior that will set them up to really feel bad when they finally meet a girl they really like and she dumps him. These false positives usually come in the form of women who aren?t actually into them but are willing to listen, give their numbers, and go on dates with these simply because of they?re working the dancing monkey angle so hard.

On the other hand, when you simply talk to women to identify which ones like you, then you can start to see how every woman that doesn?t talk to you brings you closer and closer to one who does. This is the kind of woman who will be very happy to do everything in her power to make your life more happy and exciting.

Likewise, if she wasn?t into your image enough to stop and talk, then you weren?t her type at that particular time and place ? that?s good. When women walk away from you without so much as giving the time of day, it allows you to both accept no from women and say no to women.

Talking to massive amounts of women and having massive amounts of women walk away from you puts you in good company. Babe Ruth struck out 1,330 times while hitting 714 homeruns. Michael Jordan missed over 9000 shots and lost more than 300 games in his career.

Being able to accept when a woman walks away from you is the path to a true abundance reality? And not just some feel good wishy-washy magic thinking abundance mentality? We?re talking about Reality. Men of true abundance who are more than happy to let women go who aren?t making things go smoothly with them.

When women walk away, it?s a useful opportunity to make more useful excuses that don?t have the world revolving around precious little you. Egocentric excuses like ?she doesn?t like MEEEEEEE? often miss the other 5,324,926 reasons why an individual girl might not have talked to you.

Remember, it takes two to tango.

Ultimately, we don?t know why she ignored us (unless you?re psychic). So if guys insist on attaching ridiculous stories to the realities of the situation, then they might as well attach resourceful, useful, liberating stories too.

If there?s nothing there between you two, there?s nothing there. A is A. If she blows right by without even glancing at you, wish her well and move on to the next hot woman.

Likewise, external excuses turn into opportunities to fix up, adjust and test different variables in your approach. Example being ?Must be that I didn?t shave today, that?s why she didn?t stop and talk to me.? Simply shaving, then getting back out the next with your smooth, freshly shaven face gets rid of that external excuse. In fact, we can even change that excuse changes to the more productive, ?I?ll shave properly tomorrow that so I can know whether or not that actually does have any effect on meeting women or not when I head out again tomorrow.?

So in order to improve your ability to deal with women ignoring your approaches, first accept reality. A good way to do so is to take stats talking to women over the course of a month. Record how many women talked to, how many stopped to talk, how many gave their phone numbers, etc. and get a baseline for your engage rate.

Then you know what reality is. No need for crazy excuses or stories. Makes it a lot easier to work out and improve from there.

" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1593436546) } [6]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(41) "5 Ways To Suck At Meeting Beautiful Women" ["link"]=> string(80) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/5-ways-to-suck-at-meeting-beautiful-women/" ["comments"]=> string(88) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/5-ways-to-suck-at-meeting-beautiful-women/#respond" ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Mon, 29 Jun 2020 13:09:08 +0000" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(9) "Alex Wise" } ["category"]=> string(278) "Dating Adviceapproach beautiful womenavoiding bad dating advicebest ways to approach womenDating Advice for Mendating tips for menmeeting beautiful womenpua openersscared to approach womentips on meeting womenWays To Suck At Meeting Womenwere to meet womenwhy cant i meet a girl" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=5280" ["description"]=> string(309) "Want to NOT suck at meeting beautiful women? Well you?ll want to avoid these 5 common mistakes guys make when it it comes to meeting women. We?ve seen too many guys do these. Avoid them at all costs. Try to meet beautiful women where there aren?t any women. When it comes to meeting beautiful women, […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(5268) "

Want to NOT suck at meeting beautiful women? Well you?ll want to avoid these 5 common mistakes guys make when it it comes to meeting women. We?ve seen too many guys do these. Avoid them at all costs.

Try to meet beautiful women where there aren?t any women.

When it comes to meeting beautiful women, we like to meet lots of women. We like to meet really hot women. And we like to meet lots of hot women quickly. We?ve found that this is, hands-down, the most simple, fastest path to building an abundant dating life full of attractive women who really like you. Since this is our strategy, it kind of sucks when there aren?t any hot women, or even any women at all around to talk to. There?s an old saying: ?Don?t go fishing in the Sahara.? There are major metropolitan cities all over the world bristling and overflowing with single, attractive women. Your job is to set up your life in such a way that you have easy access to be able to meet lots of women. If you want to suck at meeting women, then try fishing in the Sahara.

Passively read dating advice and never take action.

Another way to suck severely at meeting beautiful women is to read tons and tons of ?pickup? material and/or pop psychology dating advice without ever taking any action. Some people refer to this as keyboard jockeying. It?s when a guy knows everything there is to know about all sorts of hypnotic patterns, magic tricks, games and gambit, social rules and funny one-liners, yet since they never leave the house, then they never end up actually meeting any women, despite all of the seemingly useful knowledge that they?ve learned. Any pattern, trick, game, gambit, rule or one-liner that any guy knows is actually worthless until he gets up, get outs and starts talking to lots of women every single day. If you want to suck at meeting women, try reading endless tomes of Dating Advice / Pop-psychology.

Rely on your friends and ?wingmen? as crutches.

While we all enjoy a good fun night out with ?da bros,? using them as a crutch and/or an excuse to head out to talk to girls is not only inefficient, but hurts guys in the long run when it comes to meeting beautiful women. The biggest problem is that it trains you to rely on other guys in order to take action on your dating life. What happens when you see a pretty girl you?d like to meet and you?re by yourself? Heading out with the guys also brings the problem of guys stepping on each other?s egos as they go about trying to talk to girls. Meeting women goes from searching for a high quality, living breathing beautiful woman to relate with and moves towards competing with other guys to see who has the biggest? skillset. The result is lower quality women for everyone. Also, there?s the issue of the dudes we hang out with being actually, genuinely more interesting and fun to talk to than any women at the given venue? This leads to endless circle-jerk chode-crystal tribing without anyone putting their balls on the line to go meet new women. If you want to suck at meeting women, rely on your other male friends and only meet women when you?re together in a frat pack.

Become dependent on certain situations/locations for meeting beautiful women.

A problem that?s kind of like a better, evolved version of ?fishing in the Sahara? is get stuck only being able to approach women in one environment. For example, a guy might only feel comfortable talking to women in a bar because he?ll tell himself the excuse that ?Women come here to meet guys.? And while he might actually be great at meeting women in bars all around town, he gets lead-feet when he see a hottie walking down the aisle at a grocery store. Some guys are okay with this because they can satisfy all their goals with dating and women simply with one type of environment. The problem comes in when they get stuck and dissatisfied with their women and are unwilling to step outside their literal comfort zone. If you want to suck at meeting women, stay trapped in the little bubble where you know meeting beautiful women is safe and happy.

Let your excuses prevent you from meeting beautiful women.

Probably the best way to suck at meeting women, however, is developing the bad habit of consistently letting any number of BS excuses stop you from approaching women. We?ve all done it at some point or another, so we all know what it sounds like. ?I?m too busy reading the ingredient list on this soda pop can to go and talk to her,? or ?She?s absolutely stunning, but she?s walking so fast I would have to run to catch up with her,? or ?She smiled at me, but I think it?s because I?m having a bad hair day? So I?m not gonna go talk to her.? If you want to suck at meeting women, then make ridiculous, hilarious excuses to not go and talk to any given woman that you find attractive.

" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(85) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/5-ways-to-suck-at-meeting-beautiful-women/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(309) "Want to NOT suck at meeting beautiful women? Well you?ll want to avoid these 5 common mistakes guys make when it it comes to meeting women. We?ve seen too many guys do these. Avoid them at all costs. Try to meet beautiful women where there aren?t any women. When it comes to meeting beautiful women, […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(5268) "

Want to NOT suck at meeting beautiful women? Well you?ll want to avoid these 5 common mistakes guys make when it it comes to meeting women. We?ve seen too many guys do these. Avoid them at all costs.

Try to meet beautiful women where there aren?t any women.

When it comes to meeting beautiful women, we like to meet lots of women. We like to meet really hot women. And we like to meet lots of hot women quickly. We?ve found that this is, hands-down, the most simple, fastest path to building an abundant dating life full of attractive women who really like you. Since this is our strategy, it kind of sucks when there aren?t any hot women, or even any women at all around to talk to. There?s an old saying: ?Don?t go fishing in the Sahara.? There are major metropolitan cities all over the world bristling and overflowing with single, attractive women. Your job is to set up your life in such a way that you have easy access to be able to meet lots of women. If you want to suck at meeting women, then try fishing in the Sahara.

Passively read dating advice and never take action.

Another way to suck severely at meeting beautiful women is to read tons and tons of ?pickup? material and/or pop psychology dating advice without ever taking any action. Some people refer to this as keyboard jockeying. It?s when a guy knows everything there is to know about all sorts of hypnotic patterns, magic tricks, games and gambit, social rules and funny one-liners, yet since they never leave the house, then they never end up actually meeting any women, despite all of the seemingly useful knowledge that they?ve learned. Any pattern, trick, game, gambit, rule or one-liner that any guy knows is actually worthless until he gets up, get outs and starts talking to lots of women every single day. If you want to suck at meeting women, try reading endless tomes of Dating Advice / Pop-psychology.

Rely on your friends and ?wingmen? as crutches.

While we all enjoy a good fun night out with ?da bros,? using them as a crutch and/or an excuse to head out to talk to girls is not only inefficient, but hurts guys in the long run when it comes to meeting beautiful women. The biggest problem is that it trains you to rely on other guys in order to take action on your dating life. What happens when you see a pretty girl you?d like to meet and you?re by yourself? Heading out with the guys also brings the problem of guys stepping on each other?s egos as they go about trying to talk to girls. Meeting women goes from searching for a high quality, living breathing beautiful woman to relate with and moves towards competing with other guys to see who has the biggest? skillset. The result is lower quality women for everyone. Also, there?s the issue of the dudes we hang out with being actually, genuinely more interesting and fun to talk to than any women at the given venue? This leads to endless circle-jerk chode-crystal tribing without anyone putting their balls on the line to go meet new women. If you want to suck at meeting women, rely on your other male friends and only meet women when you?re together in a frat pack.

Become dependent on certain situations/locations for meeting beautiful women.

A problem that?s kind of like a better, evolved version of ?fishing in the Sahara? is get stuck only being able to approach women in one environment. For example, a guy might only feel comfortable talking to women in a bar because he?ll tell himself the excuse that ?Women come here to meet guys.? And while he might actually be great at meeting women in bars all around town, he gets lead-feet when he see a hottie walking down the aisle at a grocery store. Some guys are okay with this because they can satisfy all their goals with dating and women simply with one type of environment. The problem comes in when they get stuck and dissatisfied with their women and are unwilling to step outside their literal comfort zone. If you want to suck at meeting women, stay trapped in the little bubble where you know meeting beautiful women is safe and happy.

Let your excuses prevent you from meeting beautiful women.

Probably the best way to suck at meeting women, however, is developing the bad habit of consistently letting any number of BS excuses stop you from approaching women. We?ve all done it at some point or another, so we all know what it sounds like. ?I?m too busy reading the ingredient list on this soda pop can to go and talk to her,? or ?She?s absolutely stunning, but she?s walking so fast I would have to run to catch up with her,? or ?She smiled at me, but I think it?s because I?m having a bad hair day? So I?m not gonna go talk to her.? If you want to suck at meeting women, then make ridiculous, hilarious excuses to not go and talk to any given woman that you find attractive.

" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1593436148) } [7]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(50) "Have You Ever Felt Intimidated by Beautiful Women?" ["link"]=> string(88) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/have-you-ever-felt-intimidated-by-beautiful-women/" ["comments"]=> string(96) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/have-you-ever-felt-intimidated-by-beautiful-women/#respond" ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Mon, 29 Jun 2020 12:59:58 +0000" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["category"]=> string(313) "Dating Adviceapproach beautiful womenapproaching a girlbeautiful intelligent womendating beautiful womendating tips for menGeneral Dating Advicehigh quality womenhigh value womenhow to attract beautiful womenhow to talk to beautiful womenintimidated by beautiful womenscared to approach womensmart beautiful women" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=5276" ["description"]=> string(339) "What if you knew the underlying problem behind feeling intimidated by beautiful women? Approaching a girl would become simply a matter of daily life. Read more to find out about how to move beyond being scared to approach women. Are You Intimidated by Beautiful Women? Have you ever felt intimidated by beautiful women? You know, […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(3509) "

What if you knew the underlying problem behind feeling intimidated by beautiful women? Approaching a girl would become simply a matter of daily life. Read more to find out about how to move beyond being scared to approach women.

Are You Intimidated by Beautiful Women?

Have you ever felt intimidated by beautiful women?

You know, you?re out walking around and then you see a drop-dead gorgeous woman nearby. You want to approach but you?re mind is filled with all kinds of excuses why you shouldn?t?

First we?re going to give you a short case study that highlights a big problem for men when it comes to approaching a girl they find attractive.

A Case Study On Approaching a Girl When You?re Intimidated by Beautiful Women

Frankie is going about his day when he sees a gorgeous woman walking his way. Long legs, great body, sexy style. An intimidating beauty.

He starts running through his mind.

?What can I say??
?What should I do??
?I should talk to her! But how??
?What if I mess up??
?How can I make her like me??

He gets stuck on thinking of the perfect thing to say so that this beautiful girl likes him. His mind races, playing all the possibilities over and over. And before he knows it, it is over.

?I should talk to her! I should talk to her! Bah! I should have talked to her!?

She?s already passed him by and he missed his chance because he got stuck in his head instead of taking action.

Once again, Frankie is left feeling like he doesn?t have what it takes to approach gorgeous women.

Scared to Approach Women?

Ever felt that way?

You see a stunningly attractive woman and your body tightens with an anxiety

Symptom: You feel nervous or anxious about approaching beautiful women.

Cause: Thinking that if you don?t make a great approach then you?ll have a tough time convincing her to like you.

?Oh no! If I?m not good at convincing her to like me with my approach then I can?t get her!?

Analysis: Most guys who struggle with women feel pressured to ?say X? or ?do Y? in order to convince each girl to like them. When it comes to meeting more women, the pressure of trying to convince each girl to like him comes out as anxiety and nervousness. Since the pressure gets worse the more a guy is attracted to a girl, these guys often end up hesitating and missing out on approaching the kind of women they really want.

This kind of guy is afraid that if he makes a mistake the girl will walk out of his life forever. It?s as if he sees girls as a special combination lock and thinks that if he doesn?t have the exact right code he can?t unlock her.

Talk about pressure!

The Underlying Problem Behind Being Scared to Approach Women Is ?

Feeling the need to persuade and convince women to like you. This comes from a lack of understanding and knowledge (followed up by experience) on how to meet women without any tricks to convince and persuade her at all.

" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(93) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/have-you-ever-felt-intimidated-by-beautiful-women/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(339) "What if you knew the underlying problem behind feeling intimidated by beautiful women? Approaching a girl would become simply a matter of daily life. Read more to find out about how to move beyond being scared to approach women. Are You Intimidated by Beautiful Women? Have you ever felt intimidated by beautiful women? You know, […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(3509) "

What if you knew the underlying problem behind feeling intimidated by beautiful women? Approaching a girl would become simply a matter of daily life. Read more to find out about how to move beyond being scared to approach women.

Are You Intimidated by Beautiful Women?

Have you ever felt intimidated by beautiful women?

You know, you?re out walking around and then you see a drop-dead gorgeous woman nearby. You want to approach but you?re mind is filled with all kinds of excuses why you shouldn?t?

First we?re going to give you a short case study that highlights a big problem for men when it comes to approaching a girl they find attractive.

A Case Study On Approaching a Girl When You?re Intimidated by Beautiful Women

Frankie is going about his day when he sees a gorgeous woman walking his way. Long legs, great body, sexy style. An intimidating beauty.

He starts running through his mind.

?What can I say??
?What should I do??
?I should talk to her! But how??
?What if I mess up??
?How can I make her like me??

He gets stuck on thinking of the perfect thing to say so that this beautiful girl likes him. His mind races, playing all the possibilities over and over. And before he knows it, it is over.

?I should talk to her! I should talk to her! Bah! I should have talked to her!?

She?s already passed him by and he missed his chance because he got stuck in his head instead of taking action.

Once again, Frankie is left feeling like he doesn?t have what it takes to approach gorgeous women.

Scared to Approach Women?

Ever felt that way?

You see a stunningly attractive woman and your body tightens with an anxiety

Symptom: You feel nervous or anxious about approaching beautiful women.

Cause: Thinking that if you don?t make a great approach then you?ll have a tough time convincing her to like you.

?Oh no! If I?m not good at convincing her to like me with my approach then I can?t get her!?

Analysis: Most guys who struggle with women feel pressured to ?say X? or ?do Y? in order to convince each girl to like them. When it comes to meeting more women, the pressure of trying to convince each girl to like him comes out as anxiety and nervousness. Since the pressure gets worse the more a guy is attracted to a girl, these guys often end up hesitating and missing out on approaching the kind of women they really want.

This kind of guy is afraid that if he makes a mistake the girl will walk out of his life forever. It?s as if he sees girls as a special combination lock and thinks that if he doesn?t have the exact right code he can?t unlock her.

Talk about pressure!

The Underlying Problem Behind Being Scared to Approach Women Is ?

Feeling the need to persuade and convince women to like you. This comes from a lack of understanding and knowledge (followed up by experience) on how to meet women without any tricks to convince and persuade her at all.

" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1593435598) } [8]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(42) "Walk Away? And Still Get The Girl?s Number" ["link"]=> string(79) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/walk-away-and-still-get-the-girls-number/" ["comments"]=> string(87) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/walk-away-and-still-get-the-girls-number/#respond" ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Mon, 29 Jun 2020 12:46:36 +0000" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["category"]=> string(290) "Dating Adviceapproaching a girlApproaching a Girl ? Asking for Phone Numbers Tags: approach beautiful womenask a girl for her phone numberasking a girl for her numberGeneral Dating Adviceget a girls phone numbergetting a girls numbergetting her numbertips on meeting womenwere to meet women" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=5274" ["description"]=> string(319) "Recently, I was walking when I saw a skinny blonde with black-rimmed glasses who looked really good. I walked right up to her and said, ?Hello. What?s your name?? She smiled. After exchanging greetings and joking around for about a minute I decided to ask for her number? It?s pretty easy to accept ?No? as an […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(4222) "

Recently, I was walking when I saw a skinny blonde with black-rimmed glasses who looked really good. I walked right up to her and said, ?Hello. What?s your name??

She smiled. After exchanging greetings and joking around for about a minute I decided to ask for her number?

It?s pretty easy to accept ?No? as an answer. If any one woman isn?t into us, we thank her, wish her well, and continue on to the next attractive one we see. That?s pretty much what was happening here, until an unexpected twist.

John Robie: Tell me your phone number.

Her: Why?

JR: So I can call you and ask you on a date.

Her: Wha-!!! Are you serious?

JR: (Nodding)

Her: Really??? Are you trying to trick me or something?

JR: (I check inside my suit like I?m looking for something insidious, but not finding it.) Nope, I don?t think so.

Her: Hahaha! You?re funny!

JR: Thanks. I try.

Her: So, what is this? Are you a salesman?

JR: (Raising an eyebrow at her)

Her: Why do you really want my phone number?

JR: (Smiling and extending my hand) It?s ok. I had a fun time.

Her: (Shaking my hand confusedly) Wait? Are you leaving?

JR: (Backing away to leave and talk to 16 more girls that day) Yes. I hope you have a nice day.

Her: W-w-w-wait! You don?t want my number?

JR: If you don?t want to give it to me, it?s okay. If you want to give it to me, that?s okay too. Which one is it?

Her: You want to call me for a date?

JR: Yep.

Her: Ok! You can have my number! It?s ok!

JR: Well? Ok? But? Are you sure?

Her: Yes!

JR: Really? You really want to give me your phone number?

Her: Yes, yes! Really, it?s ok!

Me: Hmm. Alright.

After I got her number, she thanked me and I told her I hope she has a nice day. As I walked away, I could only think of something that I learned a long time ago ?When a girl likes you, she won?t let you disqualify her.?

This kind of thing happens when you?re willing to accept ?No? as an answer, rather than push, plow, dance and beg just for a chance to ?get in there.?

Halfway through this interaction, when I shook her hand to walk away, I felt that I had Identified her as a woman who was not interested enough in me to give me her phone number. And since I knew I would be talking to plenty more women in the next few minutes, I was okay with simply walking away. All of her weird games got tossed to the side at that point then, simply because she saw I was EXTREMELY willing to accept ?No? as an answer? Enough so that she actually STOPPED me from leaving and practically demanded I take her number!

Walking away from her when she wasn?t making things fun and simple actually led to her giving me her number. Even the strategy of consciously making an effort (and in this case, succeeding) to make her laugh is really only another way to Identify whether or she?s into me ? women who are interested smile and laugh at our jokes (even when they?re lame? ESPECIALLY when they?re lame!), while those who aren?t interested may not even bat an eyelash (even when we come up with the most gut-bustingly, witty zinger).

None of my actions came from a Chasing mindset ? the kind of mindset that has guys Chasing her for her phone number, Chasing her to spend more time with her, Chasing her for the chance to maybe possibly get a date or anything else. Any form of ?pushing? or ?plowing? just causes resistance, and thus has no place in the dating life of men who want stress-free, fun-filled times with incredible women who are totally into them.

Stop Chasing. Learn to Identify women who are into you right from the beginning. Talk to lots of women every day. Simply walk away if she?s not making things smooth and fun. And as always, Be Amazing.

" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(84) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/walk-away-and-still-get-the-girls-number/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(319) "Recently, I was walking when I saw a skinny blonde with black-rimmed glasses who looked really good. I walked right up to her and said, ?Hello. What?s your name?? She smiled. After exchanging greetings and joking around for about a minute I decided to ask for her number? It?s pretty easy to accept ?No? as an […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(4222) "

Recently, I was walking when I saw a skinny blonde with black-rimmed glasses who looked really good. I walked right up to her and said, ?Hello. What?s your name??

She smiled. After exchanging greetings and joking around for about a minute I decided to ask for her number?

It?s pretty easy to accept ?No? as an answer. If any one woman isn?t into us, we thank her, wish her well, and continue on to the next attractive one we see. That?s pretty much what was happening here, until an unexpected twist.

John Robie: Tell me your phone number.

Her: Why?

JR: So I can call you and ask you on a date.

Her: Wha-!!! Are you serious?

JR: (Nodding)

Her: Really??? Are you trying to trick me or something?

JR: (I check inside my suit like I?m looking for something insidious, but not finding it.) Nope, I don?t think so.

Her: Hahaha! You?re funny!

JR: Thanks. I try.

Her: So, what is this? Are you a salesman?

JR: (Raising an eyebrow at her)

Her: Why do you really want my phone number?

JR: (Smiling and extending my hand) It?s ok. I had a fun time.

Her: (Shaking my hand confusedly) Wait? Are you leaving?

JR: (Backing away to leave and talk to 16 more girls that day) Yes. I hope you have a nice day.

Her: W-w-w-wait! You don?t want my number?

JR: If you don?t want to give it to me, it?s okay. If you want to give it to me, that?s okay too. Which one is it?

Her: You want to call me for a date?

JR: Yep.

Her: Ok! You can have my number! It?s ok!

JR: Well? Ok? But? Are you sure?

Her: Yes!

JR: Really? You really want to give me your phone number?

Her: Yes, yes! Really, it?s ok!

Me: Hmm. Alright.

After I got her number, she thanked me and I told her I hope she has a nice day. As I walked away, I could only think of something that I learned a long time ago ?When a girl likes you, she won?t let you disqualify her.?

This kind of thing happens when you?re willing to accept ?No? as an answer, rather than push, plow, dance and beg just for a chance to ?get in there.?

Halfway through this interaction, when I shook her hand to walk away, I felt that I had Identified her as a woman who was not interested enough in me to give me her phone number. And since I knew I would be talking to plenty more women in the next few minutes, I was okay with simply walking away. All of her weird games got tossed to the side at that point then, simply because she saw I was EXTREMELY willing to accept ?No? as an answer? Enough so that she actually STOPPED me from leaving and practically demanded I take her number!

Walking away from her when she wasn?t making things fun and simple actually led to her giving me her number. Even the strategy of consciously making an effort (and in this case, succeeding) to make her laugh is really only another way to Identify whether or she?s into me ? women who are interested smile and laugh at our jokes (even when they?re lame? ESPECIALLY when they?re lame!), while those who aren?t interested may not even bat an eyelash (even when we come up with the most gut-bustingly, witty zinger).

None of my actions came from a Chasing mindset ? the kind of mindset that has guys Chasing her for her phone number, Chasing her to spend more time with her, Chasing her for the chance to maybe possibly get a date or anything else. Any form of ?pushing? or ?plowing? just causes resistance, and thus has no place in the dating life of men who want stress-free, fun-filled times with incredible women who are totally into them.

Stop Chasing. Learn to Identify women who are into you right from the beginning. Talk to lots of women every day. Simply walk away if she?s not making things smooth and fun. And as always, Be Amazing.

" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1593434796) } [9]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(46) "Uncommon Tips to Impress Smart Beautiful Women" ["link"]=> string(85) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/uncommon-tips-to-impress-smart-beautiful-women/" ["comments"]=> string(93) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/uncommon-tips-to-impress-smart-beautiful-women/#respond" ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Mon, 29 Jun 2020 12:37:25 +0000" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["category"]=> string(306) "Dating Advicebeautiful intelligent womenbest way to impress a girlDating Advice for Mendating beautiful womenhow 2 impress a girlhow to attract beautiful womenhow to talk to beautiful womenintimidated by beautiful womensmart beautiful womensteps to impress a girltips to impress a girltips to impress girls" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=5271" ["description"]=> string(298) "Listen up. When it comes to beautiful, intelligent women ? one of the easiest ways to shoot yourself in the foot is to try to impress her with smooth lines, fancy cars or other techniques to try to convince her to like you. So what should you do instead? First of all, we?re assuming that […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(4840) "

Listen up.

When it comes to beautiful, intelligent women ? one of the easiest ways to shoot yourself in the foot is to try to impress her with smooth lines, fancy cars or other techniques to try to convince her to like you.

So what should you do instead?

First of all, we?re assuming that you want to make dating beautiful women as simple and stress-free as possible. That?s what this advice is designed to help you do.

Learn to resist the urge to impress the top-class girls and you will be well on your way to meeting, dating and relating with extremely high quality women without ever having to convince them to like you.

A Case Study on Smart Beautiful Women

Bill meets a girl. She?s great. Gorgeous. Incredible job. Smart. Exciting. She?s even funny! And to top it all off, she seems into him!

?She?s amazing!? He thinks.

Just like the last case study, Bill puts on his best performance. He really wants to impress her. He tells her all about his great lifestyle and all the cool stuff going for him. He doesn?t meet many girls like this so he really wants to make her feel a connection. He even starts making plans with her to go on future dates and telling her how unique, cool and different she is from all the other girls out there.

He pulls out every trick in the book to try to convince her that he is the right man for her. This woman is exactly the reason why he wanted to get better at persuasion and ?getting the girl.?

Success! They go on a couple dates and he spares no expense. ?I better do things right? he thinks. Things are going smoothly. They seem to have such a great connection after he?s shared so much of his past with her. He even sends her frequent messages to let her know about the cool things going on in his life and to let her know that he likes her for more than just her body.

And then ? she?s gone. She stops returning his phone calls and messages with anything more than ?I?m busy.? Meanwhile, Bill is frantically planning out how he can ?get her? to like him again. But all his pushing and persistence leads to nothing because she is already gone and he?s left
scratching his head.

The next time he goes out to meet more women he tries even harder to persuade girls to like him, under the false assumption that ?if it didn?t work with her then I need to improve my persuasion skills.?

In the end, Bill goes right back into the cycle of persuading every girl he meets to like him.

Have you ever done this?

Symptom: You feel disappointed and let-down when girls you really like leave you or stop returning your phone calls.

Cause: Feeling like you need to convince and persuade girls if you want them to stay with you for the long-run.

?Boo Hoo! If only I could have done a better job making her like me I could have kept her!?

Analysis: The thing about persuasion is that even if a guy can convince a girl to do something she didn?t originally want, the minute he stops persuading her, she leaves.

An interaction that starts with persuasion can only keep moving forward with persuasion. This puts many guys in the (usually unnoticed) cycle of trying to persuade and convince her as long as he wants her in his life or else he risks losing her when he turns off the persuading tactics.

Persuading a girl to stay with him is almost impossible for a man to do for an extended period of time. The constant internal stress of feeling the need to persuade and convince girls to like him ends up interfering with his overall happiness and ability to meet really great women. The worst part is, for the really great women like the one above, persuasion simply doesn?t cut it. She can have any man she wants. Why would she stay with a guy who has to convince her to stay when she could just as easily get one she already knows is the kind of man she wants?

The Underlying Problem Behind Feeling the Need to Impress Smart Beautiful Women (and a Solution!)

Lack of a way to meet women that can actually lead to a relationship where you are both mutually and extraordinarily happy rather than one where you are in a constant struggle to persuade her to stay with you.

What is the solution? Learn to be the kind of man that great women want to be with so that you don?t have to worry about how to persuade her to stay with you.

" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(90) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/uncommon-tips-to-impress-smart-beautiful-women/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(298) "Listen up. When it comes to beautiful, intelligent women ? one of the easiest ways to shoot yourself in the foot is to try to impress her with smooth lines, fancy cars or other techniques to try to convince her to like you. So what should you do instead? First of all, we?re assuming that […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(4840) "

Listen up.

When it comes to beautiful, intelligent women ? one of the easiest ways to shoot yourself in the foot is to try to impress her with smooth lines, fancy cars or other techniques to try to convince her to like you.

So what should you do instead?

First of all, we?re assuming that you want to make dating beautiful women as simple and stress-free as possible. That?s what this advice is designed to help you do.

Learn to resist the urge to impress the top-class girls and you will be well on your way to meeting, dating and relating with extremely high quality women without ever having to convince them to like you.

A Case Study on Smart Beautiful Women

Bill meets a girl. She?s great. Gorgeous. Incredible job. Smart. Exciting. She?s even funny! And to top it all off, she seems into him!

?She?s amazing!? He thinks.

Just like the last case study, Bill puts on his best performance. He really wants to impress her. He tells her all about his great lifestyle and all the cool stuff going for him. He doesn?t meet many girls like this so he really wants to make her feel a connection. He even starts making plans with her to go on future dates and telling her how unique, cool and different she is from all the other girls out there.

He pulls out every trick in the book to try to convince her that he is the right man for her. This woman is exactly the reason why he wanted to get better at persuasion and ?getting the girl.?

Success! They go on a couple dates and he spares no expense. ?I better do things right? he thinks. Things are going smoothly. They seem to have such a great connection after he?s shared so much of his past with her. He even sends her frequent messages to let her know about the cool things going on in his life and to let her know that he likes her for more than just her body.

And then ? she?s gone. She stops returning his phone calls and messages with anything more than ?I?m busy.? Meanwhile, Bill is frantically planning out how he can ?get her? to like him again. But all his pushing and persistence leads to nothing because she is already gone and he?s left
scratching his head.

The next time he goes out to meet more women he tries even harder to persuade girls to like him, under the false assumption that ?if it didn?t work with her then I need to improve my persuasion skills.?

In the end, Bill goes right back into the cycle of persuading every girl he meets to like him.

Have you ever done this?

Symptom: You feel disappointed and let-down when girls you really like leave you or stop returning your phone calls.

Cause: Feeling like you need to convince and persuade girls if you want them to stay with you for the long-run.

?Boo Hoo! If only I could have done a better job making her like me I could have kept her!?

Analysis: The thing about persuasion is that even if a guy can convince a girl to do something she didn?t originally want, the minute he stops persuading her, she leaves.

An interaction that starts with persuasion can only keep moving forward with persuasion. This puts many guys in the (usually unnoticed) cycle of trying to persuade and convince her as long as he wants her in his life or else he risks losing her when he turns off the persuading tactics.

Persuading a girl to stay with him is almost impossible for a man to do for an extended period of time. The constant internal stress of feeling the need to persuade and convince girls to like him ends up interfering with his overall happiness and ability to meet really great women. The worst part is, for the really great women like the one above, persuasion simply doesn?t cut it. She can have any man she wants. Why would she stay with a guy who has to convince her to stay when she could just as easily get one she already knows is the kind of man she wants?

The Underlying Problem Behind Feeling the Need to Impress Smart Beautiful Women (and a Solution!)

Lack of a way to meet women that can actually lead to a relationship where you are both mutually and extraordinarily happy rather than one where you are in a constant struggle to persuade her to stay with you.

What is the solution? Learn to be the kind of man that great women want to be with so that you don?t have to worry about how to persuade her to stay with you.

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