Re: Kinh nghie^.m tri. vo+. Re: Chu'c mu+`ng ba'c An Ha?i

["DiemQuynh Nguyen" <diemquynhng@hotmail.com>]

From: AnHai Doan <anhai@cs.washington.edu>
.......
....... Vi` the^' ca'c
>ba^.c ha^.u sinh kha? o^' ca^`n lu+u y', ddu+`ng ma^'t ca?nh
>gia'c, dde^? ro^`i ha^.n ca? ddo+`i nhu+ nhie^`u tie^`n
>bo^'i tre^n vnsa (ba'c TD, DQ, va` TP cha(?ng ha.n).
>

Ha ha, ca'i na`y thi` ba`'c AnHai sai hoa`n toa`n! Ba'c ma` la`m ddu*o*.c 
nhu* GT DX co' le~ co`n pha?i the^m nhie^`u kinh nghie^.m "dda^'u tranh 
no^.i bo^.", va` the^' na`o la` tha('ng thua hay chi? la` win-win solution, 
hay chi? la` thua dda^'y ma` thu*.c ra la` "dda.i tha('ng da`i da`i". Ca'i 
na`y thi` kho^ng co^ng khai ddu*o*.c vi` GT DX va^~n quy' tro.ng phu. nu*~ 
ne^n kho^ng the^? chi? cho ba'c dde^? la`m ha.i ca'nh phu. nu*~ ddang u?ng 
ho^. GT ddu*o*.c. Ba'c co`n pha?i ti'ch luy~ the^m nhie^`u kinh nghie^.m 
la('m! Anh na`o hay no'i to la` chi? no'i cho ddo*~ so*. ma` tho^i! Nghe 
dda^u ba'c Ngo^ Ha. cu~ng nhie^`u kinh nghie^.m la('m thi` pha?i?:-)


>Mo^.t va`i kinh nghie^.m nho?:
>
>1) Ta ne^n gia? vo+` thua ngay sau va`i tua^`n, dde^? cho
>ddi.ch ma^'t ca?nh gia'c.
>

Nhu*ng ye^'u communication thi` "ddi.ch" bie^'t thu*`a la` ta gia? vo*` ne^n 
cu*' cho ta gia? vo*` da`i da`i, the^' la` chuye^.n gia? vo*~ cu?a ta tha`nh 
tha^.t va` ta thua luo^n ca? ddo*`i dda^'y! Ca'c ba'c co`n chu*a thua (ddang 
win-win) cho*' nghe lo*`i ba'c AnHai ma` tha`nh thua tha^.t su*. dda^'y!

>2) Ne^'u ddi.ch ba('t ta na^'u a(n thi` ta vu.ng ve^` na^'u
>co+m khe^ khe't le.t. DDi.ch ba('t ta ru+?a ba't thi` ta
>dda^.p vo+~ ngay va`i ca'i trong la^`n ru+?a dda^`u tie^n
>(vi` the^' khi ddi sa('m ba't ddi~a sau khi cu+o+'i ddu+`ng
>mua toa`n ba't nhu+.a). DDi.ch ba('t ta ddi gia(.t thi` ta
>bo? ho^? lo^'n ddo^` ma`u va`o ddo^` tra('ng cho ddi.ch
>mo^.t phen kinh ho^`n. Va`i la^`n nhu+ the^' la` ddi.ch
>cha'n.
>

DDi.ch dda^u co' da.i the^' . DDi.ch se~ ra a(n co*m hie^.u, mua ma'y gia(.t 
hoa(.c gia(.t hie^.u..thue^ ngu*o*`i la`m va` ba('t ta kie^'m tie^`n va` 
ddi.ch ngo^`i enjoy life cho ta la`m tha^n tra^u bo` ddi ca`y kie^'m tie^`n 
thi` "na`m thao" dda^y? Ba'c AnHai coi thu*o*`ng tri' tho^ng minh va` IQ 
cu?a phe ddi.ch qua'!
Ca'c ba'c ga'i tha^'y ba'c AnHai ddang thua to kho^ng ?

>3) Bi' quye^'t co+ ba?n cu?a tri. vo+. chi? la` ba ca^u
>ba^'t hu? ma` chu'ng ta ca^`n ho.c thuo^.c va` no'i ddi no'i
>la.i vo+'i vo+. DDu+`ng bao gio+` no'i gi` kha'c. Ba ca^u
>na`y to^i chu+a truye^`n cho ai, nay to^i truye^`n cho ca'c
>ba'c chi? trong pha.m vi VNSA. DDe^? ddi.ch kho^ng hie^?u,
>to^i se~ tha^`m thi` ba(`ng tie^'ng Anh. Ca'c ba'c chu' y'
>nhe', ba ca^u ddo', theo thu+' tu+. la` "I'm sorry", "You
>are right, dear", va` "I will never do that again".
>

The^' thi` thua to va` thua dda^.m rui`! Ca'c ba'c sa('p "ma^'t ddo*`i co^ 
ddo*n" cho*' nghe ba'c AnHai xu'i da.i ma` ky' te^n dda^`u ha`ng kie^?u na`y 
nhe'! Co`n no'i the^' na`o thi` GT kho^ng the^? lo^. "thie^n co*" ra no*i 
co^ng co^.ng na`y ddu*o*.c!:-)


>4) To^i ddi.nh truye^`n ba' tie^'p ... nhu+ng bo^~ng cho+.t
>nghe va(ng va(?ng co' tie^'ng su+ tu+? ga^`m tho? the? (no'i
>nhu+ ba'c Ca japan), vi` the^' dda`nh ta.m du+`ng o+? dda^y.
>Mong ca'c ba'c tie^'p tu.c trau do^`i va` trao ddo^?i kinh
>nghie^.m tri. vo+.

THa^'y kho^ng? Su* tu*? mo*'i hu*~ va`i tie^'ng nho? nhe. tha'nh tho't the^' 
na`y ma` ba'c AnHai dda~ "ho^`n ba^'t phu. the^?" rui`, no'i chi tha('ng 
thua nu*~a!
CHu'c ba'c AnHai so^'ng AnVui du*o*'c nanh vuo^'t cu?a su* tu*? hie^`n nha' 
.
DX(coi su* tu*? ngang nhu* pet xinh xinh ca^`n tro^ng nom ca^?n tha^.n ma` 
tho^i!)
>
>Tha^n, Ha?i.
>

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