The Survival Guide to Bullying: Written by a Teen

The Survival Guide to Bullying: Written by a Teen

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by Aija Mayrock
     
 

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The Survival Guide to Bullying covers everything from cyber bullying to how to deal with fear and how to create the life you dream of having. From inspiring "roems" (rap poems), survival tips, personal stories, and quick quizzes, this book will light the way to a brighter future. This updated edition also features new, never-before-seen content including… See more details below

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The Survival Guide to Bullying covers everything from cyber bullying to how to deal with fear and how to create the life you dream of having. From inspiring "roems" (rap poems), survival tips, personal stories, and quick quizzes, this book will light the way to a brighter future. This updated edition also features new, never-before-seen content including a chapter about how to talk to parents, an epilogue, and an exclusive Q&A with the author.

 

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Publishers Weekly
06/22/2015
“I know what it’s like to be hated for no reason... and to feel alone with no end in sight.” Mayrock’s debut, first self-published as an e-book in 2014, offers earnest advice for those struggling with bullying. Quizzes framed as chat exchanges, bullet points, and Mayrock’s “roems” (rap poems) help walk readers through types of bullying, surviving “in the trenches,” self-acceptance, and taking action when necessary. Readers may recognize their own struggles in her emotionally charged verse (“I’ve been broken/ Bruised/ Stabbed and subdued/ Submerged in darkness/ Told there would be no light”), and while Mayrock acknowledges that her suggestions won’t instantly solve readers’ bullying problems, she offers a range of ideas (such as embracing hobbies, expanding social circles, and unplugging from the Internet) that may help make the light at the end of the tunnel feel a bit closer. Ages 10–up. Agent: Jay Kramer. (June)
VOYA, October 2015 (Vol. 38, No. 4) - Sharon Martin
The Survival Guide To Bullying, based on the author’s own experiences, was written by nineteen-year-old Mayrock literally as a survival guide for others being bullied. This is not just a pep talk; there are practical suggestions to get through the day. For example, to spend less time in the changing room at gym class, practice speed undressing and dressing at home; also, map out the safest route through school. She is very supportive and understanding of the pain others suffer but makes it clear that not only do you have the power to change the situation, indeed, you are the only one who can. Mayrock constantly states the need to discover the “real you,” the only person who really matters and who is needed for your future. Forgiving your bully is mentioned as a good thing to do for your own peace of mind, but she also acknowledges that you will know when the time is right to do that. While this could be perceived as a “girly” book, with the bright blue cover, fancy font, and poems decorated with hearts, wings, and flowers, it is full of helpful ideas and supportive advice and should prove to be an invaluable resource. This title has enough information to appeal to all ages. Mayrock is very inspirational: in an interview, when asked how she got back up after being knocked down so many times, she answered that she knew she had dreams and wanted a bright future: “You must decide to get back up even before you get knocked down.” Reviewer: Sharon Martin; Ages 11 to 18.
School Library Journal
10/01/2015
Gr 4–7—In this revised edition of a self-published title, Mayrock, a college freshman, draws on her own experiences as a victim of bullying in middle and high school in order to help other teens. Her first-person voice is conversational and encouraging, and she offers practical survival tips (verified by experts), such as the importance of asking for adult help. Only occasionally does the advice veer into platitudes (for instance, "a war isn't won overnight"). The format and design are occasionally distracting, but on the whole, each chapter is useful as a guide to stand-alone topics, such as coping with cyberbullying and handling fear, making this a good title for young adults to consult in a moment of need. Some of the practical advice includes letter writing (penning a letter to loved ones about bullying situations), accepting oneself, and embracing creativity. Mayrock clearly relied on these steps herself; her creativity can be seen through the poems interspersed throughout. Each relates to the topic of the given chapter and conveys the raw emotions and reality of bullying. VERDICT This slim guide will be a ready resource for young people.—Ernie Cox, Prairie Creek Intermediate School, Cedar Rapids, IA
Kirkus Reviews
2015-08-26
Author Mayrock, a teen who was bullied for many years, offers tips and inspiration to others in her position. Advice is presented in short, visually appealing chapters. Exercises, lists, drawings, and pull quotes are interleaved with text, and blue, bolded lettering emphasizes key lines. Each chapter opens with a heartfelt "roem"—a term the author has coined for her rap poems—in type that emulates handwriting set on a lined page. Creativity, Mayrock explains, has been one of the most powerful tools in her healing process. Throughout the book, suggestions are helpfully broad-ranging, from nitty-gritty safety tips (if you go to a party, make sure you have a trustworthy ride home) to internal affirmations (bullying is never your fault). One of the most effective chapters invites readers to identify traits bullies target and reframe them as positives; the author describes her own quietness, creativity, and long, thick hair as examples. The author writes transparently from personal experience, and some of the specific emotional impacts or bullying tactics she describes might not be wholly universal. Nevertheless, her advice is varied and her compassion, genuine enough that readers are bound to find plenty of applicable nuggets as well as a wealth of encouragement. Practical, moving, and deeply kind. (Nonfiction. 10-18)

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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780545860536
Publisher:
Scholastic, Inc.
Publication date:
06/30/2015
Edition description:
Revised
Pages:
160
Sales rank:
206,832
Product dimensions:
5.20(w) x 7.90(h) x 0.20(d)
Age Range:
12 - 17 Years

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