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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux; First Edition edition (July 15, 2014)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0374298696
  • ISBN-13: 978-0374298692
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.7 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #28,079 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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From Booklist

The American-born son of poor but tough Calabrian immigrants, Luzzi yearned for the Italy of Dante and Michelangelo, not the one of sharp cheese and salted anchovies. But while building a distinguished scholarly career writing about Italian high culture, the very different Italy of his parents continued to haunt him with the smells of its cooking, the calloused hands of his uncles, and the unsentimental way in which his mother dispatched animals for the family table. Luzzi is not, of course, the first to note the distance between these two Italies—as he notes, Tony Soprano grappled with the same issue—but the contrasting ideals provide Luzzi with a lens through which to examine Italy and the Italian American experience, especially that of his family. In part, he is trying to puzzle through the miseria of his parents, who survived the war to suffer a lifetime of backbreaking labor and enduring but pugnacious love. But when Luzzi shares his deepest pain—the sudden death of his pregnant wife in a car accident—his investigations of his extended family turn powerfully poignant, for it was they who cared for his infant daughter while he curled in a fetal position in his childhood bed. The result is a memoir that balances thoughtful observation with feelings that, one senses, still remain quite raw. --Brendan Driscoll

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Praise for My Two Italies:

My Two Italies [is] a brilliant tour de force that is part memoir, part cultural criticism and part paean to the magical city of Florence. A narrative at once elegant and elegiac, the book encapsulates the essence of contemporary Italy—sordid politics, organized crime, the bella figura—in a fast-paced prose that rushes by much too quickly.” —Arlice Davenport, Wichita Eagle

“In his elegant, thoughtful new memoir, My Two Italies, [Joseph Luzzi] writes of watching his father and uncle carve up an entire goat, make wine, and hold a meeting of brothers to determine the fate of an uncle’s unfaithful wife. And this was not 19th-century Calabria, but Rhode Island in the 1970s . . . In this relatively slim book, Luzzi effectively covers lots of ground on Italian identity as a whole: the concept of mammoni (40-year-old Italian men who live with their mothers), Italy’s Slow Food movement, and a somewhat dutiful examination of the country’s politics since World War II. On Americans of Italian descent, he writes ‘we Italian Americans suffer from a form of cultural schizophrenia, half of our soul nourished by centuries of European arts and letters,’ while the other half is ‘contaminated’ by The Godfather and The Sopranos. But Luzzi can be heartbreakingly tender, as when he recalls his pregnant wife, who was hit by a car and died just after his daughter was delivered. It’s only a few passages, but it is amazingly affecting. His daughter is now four years old; at bedtime he reads to her and tells her stories, for ‘stories will be all that binds her to Calabria.’ And when he travels to Florence now, without his wife, Luzzi considers yet another two Italies: ‘the Italy of the living and the dead.’ As for his own sense of being an Italian American, he strikes a bittersweet chord: ‘We commemorate our past only to remind ourselves how far we have traveled from it.’” —Mark Rotella, NPR

My Two Italies touches, lightly and elegantly, on politics, history, geography, sociology, language, literature, film, food and family . . . [There are] deeply felt stretches of memoir.” —Craig Seligman, The New York Times Book Review

“Written as part memoir, part disquisition on Italy, its dialect and grammar, its food and idiosyncracies, its celebrated writers and painters, its Mafia and founding myths, My Two Italies is also a thoughtful book about exile, the sense of displacement and confusion that those driven from their roots carry with them forever. Even if, as in Luzzi’s own case, it is exile from a world that he himself never actually knew. Some things, he notes, are indeed translated into the idiom of a new life; others, ‘felt in the blood,’ endure unchanged.” —Caroline Moorehead, The Times Literary Supplement

“Joseph Luzzi[’s] . . . charming new book, My Two Italies . . . succeed[s] in capturing the spirit of a certain form of biculturalism and the ambivalence and conflict it causes . . . Luzzi is particularly good when he shares personal experiences and conveys observations and ideas about identity. His anecdotes about family will strike a chord with any reader familiar, even vaguely, with the immigrant experience. The best of the book comes in the middle, in the chapter called ‘The Fig Tree and the Impala,’ a lovely, well-composed rumination on the cultural and generational divide between Luzzi and his father that doubles as a thoughtful essay on the nature of language . . . Luzzi, a sympathetic storyteller with an easy, sometimes elegant style, succeeds admirably.” —Adam Parker, The Post and Courier

My Two Italies deals with the enduring disconnect between the ideal Italy that is admired as a center of civilization, and the hardship and hardness of the emigrant experience. Both come vividly alive in Luzzi’s heartfelt and illuminating book.” —Gay Talese, author of Unto the Sons

“Joseph Luzzi has written a funny and often moving family history that opens onto wider vistas that he knows and loves equally well—the Italian cultural and political landscape from Dante to Silvio Berlusconi. Full of charm and insight, but admirably frank and unsentimental, My Two Italies should be required reading on all flights to Italy.” —Ross King, author of Leonardo and the Last Supper

“This is a delightful, poignant, moving, entertaining but above all illuminating book, which like the best art has many layers—of the Italian-American experience, of Italy’s north-south divide, of Italy’s strange but fascinating modern history and of the personal journey of its author. I commend it warmly.” —Bill Emmott, author of Good Italy, Bad Italy and former editor of The Economist

“Joseph Luzzi has skillfully woven together a powerful and moving memoir of his Calabrese family and an entertaining, incisive study of an Italy split between north and south, St. Francis and Berlusconi, Botticelli and the Sopranos. My Two Italies is sad, funny, and deep—a timely book, packed with searching questions.” —Marina Warner, winner of the 2012 National Book Critics Circle Award for criticism and author of The Lost Father

“Anecdotes . . . give Luzzi’s work richness. And Luzzi’s academic prowess in all cultural things Italian, adds spice. He draws from numerous authors, both long-gone and still alive, to delve into Italy’s history and explain how the country’s dialect-driven languages eventually were woven into one.” —Lee Coppola, Buffalo News

“Luzzi’s evocative personal history and incisive cultural critique illuminates the complex forces that have shaped his own identity. Being Italian and American, he comes to realize, has been both a bountiful gift and ‘an ethnic cross I had to bear.’” —Kirkus

“Midway along the journey through his life, Dante scholar Luzzi wakes to find himself in a dark wood of longing and desire, wishing to know more about his Calabrian heritage. Luzzi, a wonderful storyteller, plays Virgil to our pilgrim, guiding us through the schizophrenic character of Italian culture. To arrive at a deeper understanding of his Italian heritage, Luzzi enrolls in a doctoral program in Italian literature and language, studying Dante and Northern Italy rather than his family ancestral homeland of Calabria in the south. Luzzi energetically, and with some nostalgia, recounts stories of his various travels through Naples and Florence, his encounters with the works of Italian writers, and his meetings with members of his family. He learns that ‘the Italian family is like Italy itself: fragmented on the surface, riven by intrigue, resistant to change, suspicious of outsiders, and quick to set individual interests over group ones.’ In the end, Luzzi embraces his two Italys—Calabria and Tuscany—not as a burden or as a struggle, but as a gift that has brought him ‘inside the disappearing world of my parents and millions of other Italian exiles.’”  —Publishers Weekly

“The American-born son of poor but tough Calabrian immigrants, Luzzi ‘yearned for the Italy of Dante and Michelangelo, not the one of sharp cheese and salted anchovies.’ But while building a distinguished scholarly career writing about Italian high culture, the very different Italy of his parents continued to haunt him with the smells of its cooking, the calloused hands of his uncles, and the unsentimental way in which his mother dispatched animals for the family table . . . The contrasting ideals provide Luzzi with a lens through which to examine Italy and the Italian American experience, especially that of his family . . . When Luzzi shares his deepest pain—the sudden death of his pregnant wife in a car accident—his investigations of his extended family turn powerfully poignant, for it was they who cared for his infant daughter while he curled in a fetal position in his childhood bed. The result is a memoir that balances thoughtful observation with feelings that, one sense, still remain quite raw.” —Brendan Driscoll, Booklist


More About the Author

Joseph Luzzi is a writer and professor of Italian at Bard College. The first child in his Calabrian family born in the U.S., he is the author of the forthcoming memoir, "My Two Italies" (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, July 2014), the dramatic story of his Italian family's immigration and an insider's look at the turbulence of life in Italy today, especially during the Berlusconi years.

He is a frequent contributor of essays and reviews to publications including the New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Bookforum, the London Times Literary Supplement, and many others. His first book, "Romantic Europe and the Ghost of Italy" (Yale Univ. Press 2008), received the Scaglione Prize for Italian Studies from the Modern Language Association, and he is the author of the forthcoming "A Cinema of Poetry: Aesthetics of the Italian Art Film" (Johns Hopkins Univ. Press, 2014). His work has been translated into Italian and Portuguese, and he has lectured throughout the world on art, film, literature, and Italian culture.

Customer Reviews

This was such an interesting book - I truly enjoyed reading it.
Steve Schragis
The author is a good story teller who has developed the theme of his book with grace and wit.
Robert D. Noyes
The good side of this would be the exquisite-sounding, pre-movement Slow Food meals.
S. Lawrence

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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful By Filomena Abys on August 14, 2014
Format: Hardcover
A Journey of Identity

I watched a short video on FB of Professor Luzzi discussing the reasons he wrote this book, and was quickly drawn to his story by the strong similarity in our Italian-American experience. I'm an Italian immigrant from Naples Italy, and understand the struggles of Southern Italians trying to adjust to the American life-style.
I think most Americans understand how difficult it must be for immigrants to adjust to a new American life style but what Professor Luzzi describes so well is the struggle for Italians to understand each other. Most Americans don't realize how different the cultures of Italy really are. Most second and third generation Italian-Americans don't understand the cultural differences themselves, and sadly many don't know what part of Italy their ancestors came from.
My Two Italies is not only a personal journey of coming to terms with Joseph Luzzi identity but a wonderful account of the history of a country that has given so much to the world. Professor Luzzi describes the differences of the North and South while the reader follows his personal journey of coming to terms with his Southern Italian identity.
This is a must read for all who wish to understand the complex Italian Culture. Bravo Professor Luzzi
Filomena Abys-Smith author of A Bit of Myself
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Louis M. on July 19, 2014
Format: Hardcover
The reader is quickly drawn into this autobiography that narrates the struggles of a Calabrian immigrant family whose peasant background starkly contrasts with the high culture of Florence. Luzzi describes his efforts to navigate these two worlds, to be a sophisticated scholar and still recognize his uncultured roots. Along the way he teaches us about Italian politics and history, art and literature, society and economy. He tells of personal tragedies and triumphs, of the complex dynamic of a family living by values that are out of place in America, and of the peace that comes from suffering for love. Will greatly appeal to those who experienced family life as a transition from a foreign language to American English or anyone who just wants a good and enjoyable read.I read it right through and was sorry when there was no more.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Joseph Sciarillo on August 10, 2014
Format: Hardcover
As a second generation Italian born in the USA, I was curious to read this first generation experience. Dr. Luzzie grew up in a household separated from his parents not only by a generation, but also by at least a century. In a forthright presentation, he examined his family experience with love, respect, and honesty. I found My Two Italies compelling. It is a deeply personal, and, I believe, courageous work. It peals back the Italian myths (both Italy and the USA view Italy through mythical lenses) and shows the reality. The memoir details Dr. Luzzi’s coming to terms with his family and in another context suggests that strong Italian family bonds help to explain Italy’s dysfunctional government. Reading this book was time well spent.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By S. Lawrence on July 27, 2014
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To my great delight My Two Italies is as good and fascinating as its premise. With much warmth and human feeling, Prof. Luzzi weaves two particular strands of Italy: the Grand Tour, Ruskin-in-hand, sprezzatura (genius) Italy and the hardscrabble, sun-scorched, Fourteen Years as Age of Consent south. His parents and older siblings were born in the mezzogiornio (midday sun south) - geographically of course the same country as the cultural trinity of Venice-Florence-Rome but somehow a universe away. When the parents escape to the States for a better economic future they are neither former Italians nor future Italian-Americans. Instead the parents remain steadfastly Calabrese.
The good side of this would be the exquisite-sounding, pre-movement Slow Food meals. Their quotidian dinners today would be the cover story on a glossy food or travel magazine.
The bad side, though, is a tough, old-school father who ostracized his daughter because she dared to want to move out and have her own place - at age 27.
Given Prof. Luzzi's ancestry it seems to surprise even him that he develops such a passion for northern Italy art and literature. Yet he reminds the reader that there's a tremendous legacy of culture in the south as well; he describes a Naples museum in which he was the only visitor in a room filled with important works of art. Memories of scrimmaging through the Uffizi make the solitude alone sounds enormously appealing.
On an early student trip to Florence he's taken aback when a northern girl says of his parents' region, "That's not Italy - that's Africa!" The (intended) putdown made me wonder what the father thought of African-Americans. Was he sympathetic to their plight as a fellow outsider, or did he believe that they should just work hard like he did and quit whining?
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Moonstruck216 on August 13, 2014
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If you have southern Italian ancestry (especially Calabrese) you will enjoy this book. The characters in the author's family are instantly recognizable - change some names and move them to Brooklyn and you'd have a family similar to mine. As with any discussion about Italians, food always gets into the conversation. I was taken aback when he said his mother's panu di Pasqua had anise in it. My mother's version was a rich sweet bread (similar to challah) that tastes great with a shmear of butter on it. Anise? I dunno.

The main focus of the book is the differences among Italians. It may be one country politically but there are wide differences among the regions. I did not find the discussion to be denigrating to southern Italians. I enjoyed the discussions of art. literature and Italy's dysfunctional politics (actually worse than our country, if that's possible).

Toward the end of the book he talks about the death of his wife and visiting Italy with his daughter. This part of the book was painful to read. Otherwise, this was an enjoyable reading experience.
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