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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Crown (October 14, 2014)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0307720659
  • ISBN-13: 978-0307720658
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.8 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #34,471 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"[An] extraordinary and troubling portrait of life under severe repression…[Kim’s] account is both perplexing and deeply stirring."
—Publishers Weekly, starred review

"A rare and nuanced look at North Korean culture, and an uncommon addition to the 'inspirational-teacher' genre."
Booklist, starred review

"A touching portrayal of the student experience in North Korea, which provides readers with a rare glimpse of life in this enigmatic country...Well-written and thoroughly captivating."
Library Journal, starred review

"Strangely terrifying…A beautifully written book that greatly expands the limited bounds of what we know about North Korea’s ruling class."
Barbara Demick, author of Nothing to Envy

"Terrifying and sublime, Without You, There Is No Us is a stealth account of heartbreak. Suki Kim, brilliant author of The Interpreter, penetrates the soul of her divided country of origin, bearing witness to generations of maimed lives and arrested identities. This look inside totalitarian North Korea is like no other."
Jayne Anne Phillips, author of Lark and Termite and Quiet Dell

"This superb work of investigative journalism is distinguished by its grave beauty and aching tenderness. So skilled is Suki Kim in conveying the eeriness and surreal disconnect of the North Korean landscape that I sometimes felt I was reading a ghost story, one that will haunt me with its silences, with its image of snow falling upon a desolate campus, with the far laughter of her beloved students."
Kiran Desai, author of The Inheritance of Loss
 
"Like an explorer returned from a distant planet or another dimension, Suki Kim has many extraordinary tales to tell, among them how different—and how awful—life is for those who live in North Korea. The devil is in the details here, for her gritty narrative focuses on everyday events to reveal how repression shapes daily life, even for the most privileged. Yet Kim also bears witness to that part of the human soul that no oppressor can ever claim."
Carlos Eire, author of Waiting for Snow in Havana
 
"In language at once stark and delicate, Suki Kim shatters the polemic of North and South Korea. She couples an investigative reporter's fierce desire to strip away the fiction of the Hermit Kingdom with an immigrant's insatiable hunger for an emotional home, no matter how troubled and no matter how impossible." 
Monique Truong, author of The Book of Salt
 
"Combining a great novelist's eye for character and a skilled journalist's grasp of politics, Without You, There Is No Us helps us understand North Korea like nothing else I have ever read or watched. The elegance of Kim's prose and her great compassion for ordinary people caught up in an extraordinary situation kept me turning the pages, riveted by her story. This is a book that rejoins North Korea with humanity."
Suketu Mehta, author of Maximum City
 
"What a unique book this is! It delivers a beautifully and bravely observed inside account—startling, insightful, moving—of the planet's most notoriously closed and bewildering society.  But what I liked best about it was being in the company of Suki Kim's voice—so intimate, vulnerable, obsessive, resilient, confiding and charming."
Francisco Goldman, author of Say Her Name and The Interior Circuit

"A fascinating--and sad--glimpse into the most isolated country in the world."
Audrey magazine

"[A] nuanced account… informed by the heartrending stories of [Kim’s] family members split asunder by the Korean War.…Kim’s book illuminates 'the inherent contradiction of a country backed into a corner, not wanting to open up, but needing to move toward engagement to survive.'"
—BookPage

"[A] most enlightening tale about the North Korean darkness…Directs the lights of emotion and intelligence on a country where ignorance is far from bliss."
Kirkus Reviews

About the Author

Suki Kim is the author of the award-winning novel The Interpreter and the recipient of Guggenheim, Fulbright, and Open Society fellowships. She has been traveling to North Korea as a journalist since 2002, and her essays and articles have appeared in the New York TimesHarper’s, and the New York Review of Books. Born and raised in Seoul, she lives in New York.

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Still Suki holds out hope for the future.
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The author's perceptive observations and incredibly readable writing style make this a fascinating read that will not only inform but will also enlighten and inspire.
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A must read for anyone concerned or who holds an interest with world affairs and North Korea.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Bonner '62 VINE VOICE on September 4, 2014
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The author spent two semesters at a Pyongyang technical college teaching English to the sons of the elite. The relatively small campus might as well have been a fairly comfortable prison. The faculty was only allowed out for an occasional shopping trip to authorized shops for tourists and diplomats and visits to a few tourist stops. The students knew better than to share very much with the foreigners and only flashes of the person behind the shell emerged. The author was born in the ROK and knew how horrible day to day life is in the North but had to repress her feeling to get through her tour. There really isn't much information in the book that would engage the reader. Her life was dull and she saw as much of the country as someone on a 7 day tour from Denmark. She desperately wanted to like her "young gentlemen" but it took two to make that work. The stunning thing was this reader came away with the idea that even these young representatives of the DPRK "one percent" believed most of the propaganda that the world stood in awe of the miracle that is the DPRK. I'm not sorry I read the book but I didn't learn much from it.
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By wogan TOP 100 REVIEWER on October 9, 2014
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Suki Kim was born in South Korea and now lives in New York, but for 2 years she was a teacher of English in Pyongyang in North Korea. Only the select sons may attend this school. She is careful at all times, because she knows that she is being watched and so are her students. Still she takes notes, because she is a journalist first and foremost.

This book gives some insights to North Korea, if you keep in mind that Kim was closely controlled and hardly able to leave the school campus. Also her students were those from families that were in political favor. They all seemed to believe in the government's propaganda even while longing to see such movies as Harry Potter.

There are some insightful points in Kim's thoughts. She points out that decades of such separation sickens a nation. Despite her time there we cannot learn much about everyday life with the exception of knowing some of the restrictions that exist even for the elite. We do acquire the sensation of how unnerving and disconcerting life is in this country with its god like worship of its ruling family.

Although it seems improbable that we can get a realistic and total view of what life is like in the Democratic People's Republic of Korea this does give a sample. It would be of interest to those wanting to learn about Korea and the politics, social and political climate of today.
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I've long been interested in North Korea but let's face it, information is minimal and rarely relates to the lives of the ordinary people living in one of the most secretive nations of the modern world. With great interest, I read this book literally in one sitting; it is entirely fascinating. The students sound like many of my own college students in so many ways yet with vast differences that are both naively touching and eerily creepy. Likewise, some of the scenes and situations would be laughable if not so very bizarre; for example, the author relates going to an apple orchard only to be given a litany of the great leaders interest in eating apples, planting apples, visiting the apple farm etc... or the beach with monuments to the great leader or the excessively strange religious service which seemed both staged and strained. Perhaps most odd of all, the collection of gifts given to the great leader from around the world - locked up and organized by nation with a running tally. A rare glimpse into a nation, lifestyle and mentality which is truly the antithesis of globalization. Profound in many respects, touching in others and absolutely bizarre throughout. Superb book. Could not put it down.
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By Amazon Customer on September 18, 2014
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This was a fascinating memoir. While I could have done without the mentions of the lover in Brooklyn, which I felt did not add anything to the book, I was enthralled by the world she described inside North Korea. Part of it read almost like one of the dystopian novels that are so popular these days for the YA market, but gave me chills because I knew what the author wrote was all true. The one question that remained for me after reading this book was why the author cared so much about her students. I read a few articles about her online and now have a much better understanding of how the division of North and South affected her parents' generation and to a great extent, her generation as well. I finished this book feeling amazed at the bravery it must have took to live in North Korea, and impressed with what the author tried to accomplish during her time there.
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I listened to the author being interviewed on television and thought the book looked interesting. In reality I found it to be a bit of a disappointment. The author is a Korean born journalist who now lives in New York City and has been writing about her native country for a few years. The time that Suki Kim spent in North Korea was as an instructor of English at a university that catered to the children of the most influential adults in the police state. Frankly, I didn't feel I learned that much about the subject, but I think the writing style kept the book moving along -- the author kept extensive notes about her time in North Korea, and naturally the identity of the students and other instructors have been hidden for their protection. I think this book is primarily going to be of interest to those who already have an interest in the culture of North Korea.
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