Re: Phu. Nu+~ Vie^.t Nam

[huy.duong@ctsu.ox.ac.uk]

Cha`o chi. Hie^`n,

<<<CO' bao gio*` anh suy nghi~ ta.i sao ho. la^'y cho^`ng ta^y kho^ng ?
ANh co' bao gio*` nghi~ ra(`ng ti`nh ye^u kho^ng bie^.t ch?ng to^.c
kho^ng?>>>

Co', cho ca? hai ca^u ho?i cua? chi.. Nhu+ng co' va^'n -de^` na`y
kho^ng co' nghia~ la` kho^ng co' va^'n -de^` kia. 

Di~ nhie^n la` ti`nh ye^u kho^ng pha^n bie^.t chu?ng to^.c, nhu+ng tre^n su+. 
tha^.t cu~ng co' nhu+~ng ngu+o+`i muo^'n cu+o+'i vo+./la^'y cho^`ng -de^? co'
mo^.t -do+`i so^'ng be^n A^u My~. Co' ai chu+a tu+`ng tha^'y -die^`u na`y 
kho^ng?  

Di~ nhie^n la` ti`nh ye^u kho^ng pha^n bie^.t chu?ng to^.c, nhu+ng ti`nh ye^u
la` ke^'t qua? cua? nhie^`i ye^'u to^': (1) ba?n ti'nh, (2) co+ ho^.i ga<.p 
go+~, (3) tho+`i gian ga^`n nhau, (4) hoa`n ca?nh, vv. Ne^'u co' ye^'u to^' na`o 
ke'm, thi' du. nhu+ (2) va` (3), thi` statistically speaking ti`nh ye^u se~ 
ke'm, tru+` khi no' -du+o+.c bu` -da<'p ba<`ng su+'c ma.nh cua? nhu+~ng ye^'u 
to^' kha'c,  va` tre^n trung bi`nh cha<'c ye^'u to^' ba?n ti'nh kho^ng pha^n 
bie^.t chu?ng to^.c.

Cha`o anh La^m,

Kho^ng bie^'t la` to^i kho'c mu+o+'n cho phu. nu+~ Vie^.t Nam
hay khen ho. bie^'t xoay so+? khi -da`n o^ng Vie^.t Nam mi`nh -de^? cho
vie^.c xoay so+? -do' tro+? tha`nh ca^`n thie^'t?

Huy