Re: Have break

[AnHai Doan <anhai@cs.washington.edu>]

Cha`o ba'c Hue^. va` ca'c ba'c,

DDo.c dda^`u dde^`, tha^'y ho+i la` la., cha('c ba'c Hue^. ddi.nh vie^'t 
"Heart break" thay vi` "have break". To^i thi?nh thoa?ng cu~ng bi. vie^'t 
lo^.n nhu+ the^' na`y. :-)

On Tue, 13 May 1997, Hue Dang Thi (ITL Vendor) wrote:

> Do.n hop thu , tha^'y co' ba'c ke chuyen ban be tranh luan trong tinh
> yeu phai nao 'more vulnerable' , ro^`i ba'c trich truyen Anderxen , hai
> anh chi. ng` bo^.t , anh thi` tim la`m bang hat ha.nh nha^n da('ng co`n
> chi. tim ba(`ng ddu*o*`ng dde^? ro^`i KL nga^`m ra(`ng pha'i nam 'more
> vulnerable' .
> Nhu*ng ba'c gi` a^'y oi , ba'c que^n hay co^' ti`nh que^n ra(`ng nha^n
> vat chi'nh trong truyen da rut ra bai hoc la nam gioi la` ng` duoc quyen
> chu dong thi phai noi truoc . Phai nu luon la` ng` cho*` do*.i , bi.
> dong . DDuo.c quyen noi ma khong noi , cu*' cha^'t chu*'a trong lo`ng
> la`m gi` chang vo*~ tim ma chet , dda'ng ddo*`i  !!
> (Noi the thoi chu cac bac chet thi chung toi cung chet theo thoi nhu
> trong truyen vay ! )

Ba'c Hue^. no'i ddu'ng la('m. DDu+o+.c 
quye^`n no'i ma` kho^ng no'i thi` che^'t la` dda'ng ddo+`i :-). Nhu+ng 
to^i e la` ba'c na`y tri'ch truye^.n Andersen chi? dde^? mu+o+.n 
ca'i metaphor "tim la` ha.t ha.nh nha^n dda('ng" ma` no'i le^n su+.
tha^.t la` "love for men is genetically engineered to be suffering". 
Sinh ra tim dda~ la` ha.t ha.nh nha^n dda('ng ro^`i thi` co`n no'i la`m 
gi` nu+~a! Ne^'u di.ch "ddao to bu'a lo+'n" ra thi` "DDa`n o^ng sinh ra 
la` dde^? ddau kho^? trong ti`nh ye^u", nghe cu~ng kinh dda^'y chu+'! :-)

Tha^.t ra gi` cu+' gi` chi? co' ti`nh ye^u mo+'i ddau kho^?. "Men are
genetically engineered to be suffering". To^i ddo.c chuye^.n ke^?  ra(`ng co'
mo^.t nha` vua no. muo^'n ti`m hie^?u ve^` toa`n bo^.  li.ch su+? cu?a con
ngu+o+`i, be`n sai mo^.t nha` tho^ng tha'i vie^'t sa'ch dde^? vua ddo.c. Lu'c
dda^`u nha` tho^ng tha'i da^ng vua 30 ta^.p sa'ch da`y ke^? ve^` so^' pha^.n
con ngu+o+`i. Vua ddang lo vie^.c nu+o+'c kho^ng co' thi` gio+` dde^? ddo.c,
be`n ha. le^.nh cho nha` tho^ng tha'i vie^'t it' ho+n. Sau mu+o+`i na(m lao
ddo^.ng, ta^.p sa'ch ddu+o+.c ru't xuo^'ng co`n 10 quye^?n, nhu+ng nha` vua
ddang lo dda'nh gia(.c, ne^n la.i ha. le^.nh vie^'t i't ho+n nu+~a. Mu+o+`i
na(m nu+~a tro^i qua, nha` tho^ng tha'i, lu'c na`y dda~ gia` la('m, mang
da^ng vua chi? mo^.t quye^?n sa'ch. Nhu+ng lu'c na`y vua dda~ na(`m ha^'p
ho^'i tre^n giu+o+`ng be^.nh, be`n ra le^.nh cho nha` tho^ng tha'i to'm ta('t
ca? so^' pha^.n con ngu+o+`i trong mo^.t ca^u. O^ng na`y be`n cu'i xuo^'ng
va` ba?o vo+'i vua ra(`ng :"men are born, suffer, and die". 

So^' pha^.n con ngu+o+`i no'i nga('n go.n la` nhu+ va^.y. Tuy ca^u 
chuye^.n ke^? ve^` con ngu+o+`i no'i chung, nhu+ng no' tha^.t ddu'ng cho 
dda`n o^ng. :-)

Ho+n nu+?a the^' ky? sau khi ca^u chuye^.n tre^n ddu+o+.c ke^?, da`n nha.c
Beatles la.i nha^.n ra "cha^n ly'" trong ba`i ha't no^?i tie^'ng "Girl":
"Does she know that we are suffering all day just for an hour of 
happiness?", ba`i ha't co' ca^u lo+`i tu+o+ng tu+. nhu+ va^.y. :-)

To^i ke^? loa(ng qua(ng leo queo ve^` "genetic men" mo^.t ho^`i cho vui, 
nay xin quay la.i chuye^.n chi'nh. Ba'c Hue^. no'i chuye^.n tre^n la`m 
to^i nho+' ho^`i ho.c ca^'p ba bo.n to^i hay pha?i ddi tru+.c tru+o+`ng.
Buo^?i to^'i co' ddo^i trong tru+o+`ng ra ngo^`i bu.i ca^y no'i chuye^.n, 
bo.n tru+.c tru+o+`ng be`n ddi ri`nh (ma^'y tha(`ng nha^'t qu?y nhi` ma 
thi` tha gi` ma` kho^ng la`m). Tha^'y cha`ng ho?i na`ng: "Anh ye^u em em 
nghi~ sao?". Na`ng im la(.ng mo^.t ho^`i ro^`i ba?o "DDe^? em ve^` em 
ho?i me. em ca'i dda~". ?!?! :-)

Ta^'t nhie^n la` bo.n ddi ri`nh ddu+o+.c mo^.t me? cu+o+`i vo+~ bu.ng.
Ca^u chuye^.n lan ra kha('p tru+o+`ng, va` sau ddo' cu+' tha^'y ba'c trai 
kia dda^u la` bo.n hu? la'o la.i re'o "Anh ye^u em em nghi~ sao?"...:-)

Chuye^.n cu?a bo.n tre? con :-), nhu+ng no' cu~ng cho tha^'y la` ddo^'i vo+'i
ca'c ba'c ddu+.c ru+.a thi` no'i co' le~ la` mo^.t ddie^`u kho^ng kho', ca'i
kho' la` nhu+~ng gi` xa?y ra sau ddo'. Sau khi ca'c ba'c dda~ "anh ye^u em em
nghi~ sao" ro^`i thi` mo+'i tro+? ne^n vulnerable, va` nhu+~ng lu'c na`y co'
le~ ca'c ba'c trai more vulnerable ho+n ca'c ba'c ga'i. 

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