Fwd from Tuan V Nguyen Re: La.i chuye^.n ghen tuo^ng

["Hoa Nguyen" <thanhhuy@email.msn.com>]

-----Original Message-----
From: Tuan V Nguyen <rknguyen@yahoo.com>
To: Hoa Nguyen <thanhhuy@email.msn.com>

Hi anh Ho`a,
> >To^i co' nghe no'i,  ca'c ba` ca'c co^ no'i, dda`n ba` ghen coi co`n
> >ddu+o+.c chu+' dda`n o^ng ma` ghen thi` ky` la('m. Co' le~ vi` va^.y ma`
> >dda`n o^ng thu+o+`ng la`m ra ve? nhu+ mi`nh kho^ng he^` bie^'t ghen la`
> gi`.
> >Chi? co' ca'c nha` tho+ la` no'i tha^.t. Nguye^~n Bi'nh, Xua^n Die^.u
> dde^`u
> >(la`m tho+) ghen,  ai cu~ng bie^'t. To^i che'p go+?i ba'c mo^.t ddoa.n
tho+
> >ghen cu?a Vu~ Hoa`ng Chu+o+ng dde^? ba'c co' the^m... tu+ lie^.u ve^`
> >(be^.nh) ghen cu?a dda`n o^ng. To^i ddo.c tha^'y ca'i ghen cu?a dda`n ba`
> >de^~ ye^u ho+n, ddu+o+.c ho. ghen co' khi cu~ng la` nie^`m vui. Va`
> ngu+o+`i
> >dda`n ba` cu~ng can dda?m ho+n dda`n o^ng trong vu. na`y vi` ho. da'm
no'i
> >ra ho. ghen ai, ghen ca'i gi`, chu+' dda`n o^ng, nhu+ VHC, chi? (da'm)
no'i
> >chung chung, mo+ ho^` ma` tho^i.
Thank you for the poetic info.  Tui nghi~ ba`i "Ghen"
cu?a Nguye^~n Bi'nh mo+'i la` tuye^.t.  Co' nha` phe^ bi`nh
dda~ khen Ghen la` ba`i tho+ hay nha^'t cu?a Nguye^~n Bi'nh,
tu+` y' to+'i lo+`i va` ky~ thua^.t!  Trong the^' gio+'i Ta^y
phu+o+ng cu~ng co' nhie^`u ba`i tho+ ve^` ghen, nhu+ng lo+`i
le~ thi` tha(?ng tha('ng ho+n, cha(?ng ha.n nhu+ do`ng sau
na`y cu?a Shakespeare:
I will chop her into messes
Ghe^ chu+a!
Tui co' ddo.c kha' nhie^`u ve^` ghen, vi` no' co' lie^n
quan to+'i nhu+~ng vie^.c tui ddang quan ta^m to+'i xu+o+ng.
Nhu+~ng ngu+o+`i ghen la` targets ra^'t ly' tu+o+?ng dde^?
nghie^n cu+'u su+. thay ddo^?i hormones. Co' nhie^`u mo^ hi`nh
dde^? gia?i thi'ch mechanisms ve^` ghen, ddi tu+` ta^m ly' to+'i
pha?n u+'ng sinh ly'.  Co' mo^.t mo^ hi`nh gia?i thi'ch ra(`ng
ghen la` mo^.t qua' tri`nh evolution, co' ti'nh selection.
Tha`nh ra, co' the^? no'i ghen la` mo^.t dda(.c ti'nh di truye^`n.
Ly' thuye^'t na`y gia?i thi'ch ta.i sao dda`n o^ng ghen ho+n dda`n
ba`.  Mai mo^'t khi co' co+ ho^.i, tui se~ vie^'t mo^.t ba`i ve^`
vu. ghen na`y.
Gio+'i la`m ve^` ta^m tha^`n (psychiatry va` psychology)
chia ghen (romantic jealousy) ra la`m nhie^`u ca^'p & loa.i.
Ca^'p I la` mild, ca^'p hai la` moderate, ca^'p 3 la` pathological
(tu+'c la` be^.nh).  Ca^'p I chi? mo+'i the^? hie^.n qua ca?nh
ca'o, ma('ng nhie^'t, gia^.n do^~i ... Ca^'p II thi` dda~ co'
ha`nh ddo^.ng, nhu+ng chu+a violent.  Ca^'p III thi` qua' co+~
tho+. mo^.c, nhu+ ca^u chuye^.n trong ba`i ba'o.  No'i to'm la.i,
ghen ca^'p I va` II chi? mo+'i the^? hie^.n qua sentiment, nhu+ng
dde^'n ca^'p III thi` no' tro+? tha`nh physical va` physiological
response.  Ghen co+~ ca^'p III la` ca^`n ddie^`u tri., hoa(.c
ba(`ng thuo^'c, hoa(.c ba(`ng psychol counselling.

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Tuan V Nguyen