Re: Love and faithfulness: A reflection

[VietHai.Nguyen@di.epfl.ch (Viet Hai NGUYEN)]

Halihalo everybody,

Minh Vu Huynh <huynm000@goofy.zdv.uni-mainz.de> vie^'t
> ...
> De^? ke^'t thu'c ba`i na`y to^i co 2 ca^u ho?i de^? anh chi. em tha?o lua^.n:
> 
> a) Ti`nh ye^u co' chia xe? du+o+.c kho^ng? (Ist die Liebe teilbar? Is love
> divisible?) 
> Ne^'u ti`nh ye^u chia xe? du+o+.c, co' nghi~a la` co' nhie^`u ti`nh ye^u 
...
> b) ...
> Is Sex ti? le^. thua^.n hay nghi.ch vo+'i thoi gian?

Ca^u (b) na`y ba`n mo^`m thi` co`n ta.m dduo+.c, vie^'t ra khong can
tha^.n but sa ga` che^'t. Ngu+o+`i A' ddong mi`nh da^u co thi'ch ba`n
chuye^.n na`y publicly. Ngoa`i ra ba'c cu~ng kho^ng noi ro~ measure:
quantity/intensity or quality. Yeu ddu+o+ng nhieu khi cung tuong tu nhu
bussiness investment hay la`m khoa ho.c. Nhin chung cho bao nhieu thi
se nhan duo.c ba^'y nhieu. Nhung cu~ng pha?i chon duo.c ddung
market/subject ho.p voi su'c minh  thi lam an mo+'i ta^'n to+'i, nghia
la` cho.n ma(.t gu?i va`ng a^'y ma`.

Xin ba`n ca^u a) cu?a ba'c.

Ve^` nguye^n ta('c, ti`nh ye^u la` chia xe? du+o+.c. Chia ra ddu+o+.c
tha`nh bao nhie^u pha^`n la` tu`y individual. Cha('c nhie^`u ba'c co`n
nho+' ddoa.n tho+ anh To^' :

...
Tra'i tim anh chia ba pha^`n tu+o+i ddo?,
Anh da`nh rie^ng cho Dda?ng pha^`n nhie^`u,
Pha^`n cho tho+ va` pha^`n dde^? em ye^u.
...

Ti`nh ye^u me^nh mo^ng bao la infinite nhu+ cu?a Xua^n Die^.u (sao
kho^ng thay ba'c na`o post tho+ ye^u cu?a XD nhi?) thi` chia la`m ma^'y
cu~ng va^~n cu+' co`n la` me^nh mo^ng bao la.

Suy cho cu`ng ti`nh ye^u cu~ng pha?i co' nguo^`n go^'c va^.t cha^'t,
kho^ng the^? du`ng kho^ng khi' dde^? ma` so^'ng ddu+o+.c. Vi` the^' ta
cu~ng co' the^? du`ng time & space dde^? la`m mesuares. Ne^'u fix time
la.i thi theo to^i ti`nh ye^u la` modulo 7, hoa(.c tha^.m chi' 6 hoa(.c
i't ho+n, tu`y ngu+o+`i. (cf. joke "Nga`y chu? nha^.t" posted by AnHai
ho^`i Te^'t ta).

L.ai no'i ve^` kho?ang ca'ch va` ti`nh ye^u. Da^n ta co' ca^u: "Xa
ma(.t ca'ch lo`ng". The question is xa trong bao la^u. Nhie^`u khi xa
mot chu't la.i la`m ta(ng the^m lu?a lo`ng. Ca'i gi cu~ng co limit cu?a
no'. Xa la^u qua' e rang co' chuye^.n. Nguoi yeu nhau thu.c su chac chan
ho se tim cach den voi nhau thoi. Ca'c ba'c xem "Sleepless in Seatle"
chu+a?. Phim ra cu~ng la^u ro^i nhung toi vua roi nhan di.p St.
Valentine xem la.i thay va^~n hay. Very romantic. Ba'c nao chua xem thi
nen di xem. Cac chi. hoa.c ca'c anh thuo^.c nho'm ma'u O thi` chuan bi
khan gia^'y de chu`i mu~i.

Nhung cung tuy individual. Toi co nghe ve mot ca(.p nguoi ba.n (ta^y
chu+' kho^ng pha?i ta) quen so^'ng theo kieu cuo^'i tuan moi ga.p
nhau.  Dden khi cha`ng chuye^?n duo.c ve^` cu`ng tha`nh pho^' voi na`ng
thi hai nguoi la.i lu.c ddu.c muon bo? nhau.

To^i co' ca'i co^'c uo^'ng nu+o+'c cu?a ngu+o+`i ba.n ra^'t ra^'t tha^n
ta(.ng tre^n ghi mo^.t ca^u cu?a Peggy Wrightsman cu~ng hay:

It doesn't really matter how far apart we are; 
what matters is how close we stay. 

ACK:
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Cu~ng nho+ ba anh founders cu?a VNSA ma` to^i ddo+~ pha?i cha.y ra
cho+. tro+`i, lo+~ ngu+'a mie^ng no'i va`i ca^u cha.m ddo^? sa.p ba`
ba'n to^m ba'n ca' nghe chu?i cha('c ddu+' ho.ng.  To^i tha^'y VNSA
tra^.t tu+ van minh y nhu trong cu+?a hang quo^'c doanh, chi? kha'c la`
ca'c ba`i vie^'t nga`y ca`ng hay, nguo+i theo ngay cang ddong vui, ta^p
na^.p.
Hura VNSA!

Servus,
VH
--------------------"1 4 All and All 4 1"------------------

PS. Hi`nh nhu+ dde^? thu+o+?ng thu+'c tho+ can phai o trong mot hoan
canh dac biet, hoa.c o mot lua tuoi nao do moi dduo.c. Hoi nho di ho.c
toi cha(?ng thi'ch tho mot te.o na`o. Chi? me^ truye^n tie^?u thuyet,
cang da`i ca`ng la^m ly ru`ng ro+.n ca`ng thi'ch. Chi nho+' va`i ca^u
tho ba^.y, vui ve?,  nha?m nhi'. Ba.n be xung quanh cung the^' ca?.
Xu+a toi cho rang chi cu. gia` hoa.c ai "que^ mot cu.c" moi thi'ch
tho+.  Ra nu+o+'c ngoa`i thay ai cung thi'ch tho+. Co phai vi xa nha`,
i't nhie^`u ca?m tha^'y co^ ddo+n trong xa~ ho^.i ngoa.i quo^'c, tuoi
cung bat dau dan chi'n cha('n ma` thi'ch tho+ ?