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Re: Effects of being ignored on the Internet

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Subject: Re: Effects of being ignored on the Internet
From: "Truong Trong Hoang" <hoangtt@mailandnews.com>
Date: Thu, 28 Oct 1999 07:34:03 +0700
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Cha`o ba'c Tua^'n Pha.m, ba'c Tua^'n V.Nguye^~n ca? nha`,

Ve^` chuye^.n ostracism do internet, ca'ch dda^y khoa?ng va`i tha'ng tui co' 
ddo.c mo^.t ba`i vie^'t no'i ra(`ng internet la`m con ngu+o+`i ca`ng co^ ddo^.c 
ho+n trong khi nhi`n qua thi` tha^'y co' ve? nhu+ giao du nhie^`u ho+n. Ly' do 
du+o+.c dde^` ca^.p la` nhu+~ng mo^'i quan he^. tre^n ma.ng thu+.c cha^'t la` 
kha' de^~ da~i va` lo?ng le~o, muo^'n no'i chuye^.n thi` no'i, ngu+ng thi` 
ngu+ng, no'i na(ng tro+? ne^n thie^'u ca^?n tha^.n. Kha'c vo+'i ngu+o+`i ba.n 
ngoa`i ddo+`i, kho^ng pha?i muo^'n no'i sao thi` no'i vi` co`n nhi`n ma(.t nhau. 
Vi` the^' quan he^. giu+~a ngu+o+`i vo+`i ngu+o+`i (tre^n ma.ng) tro+? ne^n 
de^~ da~i, kho^ng ga('n bo'. Khi co`n la.i mo^.t mi`nh, hoa(.c co' chuye^.n 
buo^`n thi` ma^'y ngu+o+`i ba.n tre^n ma.ng bie^'n ma^'t, va? la.i ne^'u co' o+? 
ddo' thi` cu~ng kho^ng the^? ddi uo^'ng ca` phe^ no'i chuye^.n gia?i sa^`u 
ddu+o+.c. Tu+` lu'c ddo.c ba`i na`y, ba^'t ke^? khi na`o co' the^? tui dde^`u 
warn ca'c ba.n tre? ma` tui ga(.p trong khi la`m health education. Kha' nhie^`u 
tre? hie^.n ta.i o+? Sa`i Go`n ddang bi. chu+'ng Internet addiction nhu+ ba'c 
Tua^'n V.Nguye^~n no'i.

No'i na`o ngay, tui cu~ng co' tho+`i bi. nghie^.n Internet. Nguye^n do la` bi. 
depressed. Lu'c ddo' tui cu+' lang thang tre^n web dde^? vo+i ddi ca'i ca?m 
gia'c bored cu?a mi`nh. Ma` he^~ cu+' buo^ng internet ra thi` la.i ca`ng ca?m 
tha^'y co^ ddo+n ho+n, ca`ng buo^`n cha'n ho+n ne^n la.i pha?i tie^'p ca'ch va`o 
la.i. May ma` sau ddo' tui du+'t ddu+o+.c ca'i addiction na`y cu~ng mo^.t 
pha^`n nho+` ba`i ba'o tre^n. Ke^? tu+` ddo' tui tro+? la.i nhu+~ng human direct 
contacts cu?a ddo+`i o^ng ba` mi`nh xu+a, ga(.p ba.n be`, ddi uo^'ng ca` phe^ 
no'i chuye^.n.

DDe^'n gio+` tui ddi la`m ru`i. Xin cha`o ca'c ba'c, bu+~a na`o tro+? la.i tui ba`n 
the^m ve^` chuye^.n la`m sao dde^? gia?i quye^'t depression trong hoa`n ca?nh 
xa~ ho^.i tho+`i nay. Ba'c na`o co' y' kie^'n tru+o+'c xin cu+' tu+. nhie^n.

Tha^n

Tro.ng Hoa`ng



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> Date: Tue, 26 Oct 1999 07:52:13 -0700
> From: "Hoa Nguyen" <thanhhuy@email.msn.com>
> Subject: Fwd from Tuan V Nguyen Re: Effects of being ignored on the Internet
> 
> Hi ba'c Tuan & ca'c ba'c,
> Tui co' bie^'t Kip Williams trong mo^.t cuo^.c ga(.p
> ti`nh co+` ca'ch dda^y 3,4 na(m gi` ddo'.  Anh na`y la` da^n
> ta^m ly' ho.c, chuye^n ve^` Ostracism va` eyewitness identity.
> Dda^y la` mo^.t dde^` ta`i thu' vi. va` tui dde^? y' coi
> o^?ng se~ ti`m ra ddu+o+.c gi`?
> Theo nhu+ to+` USA Today ma` tui ddo.c ca'ch dda^y va`i
> tua^`n thi` chi? rie^ng o+? My~ dda~ co' khoa?ng 63 trie^.u
> ngu+o+`i du`ng internet. So^' nga`y ma` ho. du`ng ha`ng tha'ng
> dda~ ta(ng tu+` 10.3 nga`y ho^`i na(m 1998 le^n 12.1 nga`y va`o
> na(m nay.  Co' nha` ta^m ly' ho.c no. dda~ qua? quye^'t cho
> ra(`ng ba^y gio+` xa~ ho^.i la.i co' the^m mo^.t be^.nh: internet
> addiction, co`n go.i la` IA.  Ho. co`n co' nguye^n mo^.t nghie^n
> cu+'u ve^` vu. na`y.
> Theo Ho^.i Ta^m Ly' Ho.c cu?a My~ (American Psychological
> Association) ba'o ca'o: "Surfing the web is America's latest
> addiction." Trong so^' 17000 ngu+o+`i ddu+o+.c ho?i ly' do du`ng
> internet, co' 30% no'i la` ho. du`ng dde^? "escape reality."
> Nhu+~ng ca^u tra? lo+`i kha'c nhu+: 25% no'i la` ho. va`o net dde^?
> "relieve feelings of helplessness, guilt, anxiety and depression."
> Internet co`n co' a?nh hu+o+?ng to+'i co^ng vie^.c nu+~a.
> Theo ca'i survey tre^n thi` 1 trong 7 ngu+o+`i ca?m tha^'y
> "preoccupied with thoughts about the internet" ha`ng nga`y.  Do
> ddo' ho. kho^ng chu' ta^m ddu+o+.c va`o co^ng vie^.c, va` ha^.u
> qua? la` ma^'t job.  So^' ngu+o+`i no'i la` ho. ma^'t job vi`
> internet la` 4%.
> Sau dda^y la` nhu+~ng ca^u ho?i trong ca'i survey ddo'
> ddu+o+.c dda(ng trong to+` Psychol. Bull. cho ca'c ba'c tu+.
> test xem mi`nh co' ma('c chu+'ng IA hay kho^ng?
> 1. How often do you find that you stay on-line longer than you
> intended?
> 2. How often do you neglect household chores to spend more time
> on-line?
> 3. How often do you prefer the excitement of the Internet to
> intimacy with your partner?
> 4. How often do you form new relationships with fellow on-line
> users?
> 5. How often do others in your life complain to you about the
> amount of time you spend on-line?
> 6. How often do your grades or school work suffer because of the
> amount of time you spend on-line?
> 7. How often do you check your e-mail before something else that
> you need to do?
> 8. How often does your job performance or productivity suffer
> because of the Internet?
> 9. How often do you become defensive or secretive when anyone
> asks you what you do on-line?
> 10. How often do you block out disturbing thoughts about your
> life with soothing thoughts of the Internet?
> 11. How often do you find yourself anticipating when you will
> go on-line again?
> 12. How often do you fear that life without the Internet would
> be boring, empty, and joyless?
> 13. How often do you snap, yell, or act annoyed if someone bothers
> you while you are on-line?
> 14. How often do you lose sleep due to late-night log-ins?
> 15. How often do you feel preoccupied with the Internet when
> off-line, or fantasize about being on-line?
> 16. How often do you find yourself saying "just a few more
> minutes" when on-line?
> 17. How often do you try to cut down the amount of time you
> spend on-line and fail?
> 18. How often do you try to hide how long you've been on-line?
> 19. How often do you choose to spend more time on-line over
> going out with others?
> 20. How often do you feel depressed, moody, or nervous when you
> are off-line, which goes away once you are back on-line?
> Mo^~i ca^u ho?i co' 5 possible answers, ddu+o+.c score tu+`
> 1 to+'i 5 nhu+ sau:
> 1 = Rarely
> 2 = Occasionally
> 3 = Frequently
> 4 = Often
> 5 = Always
> Sau khi co^.ng ta^'t ca? scores cu?a 20 ca^u thi` ca'c ba'c se~
> co' mo^.t final score.  Ne^'u ca'i final score cu?a ba'c la`:
> * 20 - 49 points: You are an average on-line user. You may surf
> the Web a bit too long at times, but you have control over your
> usage.
> * 50 -79 points: You are experiencing occasional or frequent
> problems because of the Internet. You should consider their full
> impact on your life.
> * 80 - 100 points: Your Internet usage is causing significant
> problems in your life. You should evaluate the  impact of the
> Internet on your life and address the problems directly caused
> by your Internet usage.
> 
> =====
> Tuan V Nguyen
> 


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