Re: Jap. prof behaviour

[Vu Nguyen-Cong <ncv@ap.cc.affrc.go.jp>]

> >Hello anh Ca,
> >
> >        Hope you do not take it personally about my comment on Japanese
> >friends' behaviour. I emphasize again that I observed this behaviour in
> >Japanese friends only, not exclusively Viet friends :). I had a personal
> >experience about a Japanese prof (not friend) travelling with me from Denver
> >to Minneapolis a few years ago; he was quite rude to me on the plane
> >(perhaps thinking that I was a Japanese!). Anyway, it turned out that in the
> >conference's section, I served as a co-chair with him; his behaviour to me
> >was impeccably respectful then!!! I do not like this sort of attitude.
> 
>   Xin phe'p no'i leo;Va` vie^'t ba(`ng tie^'ng Vie^.t; To^i co' cu`ng y' nghi~ 
> va` kinh nghie^.m nhu* ba'c  Tua^'n; theo to^i vi` co' le~ ho. nghi~ ho. la` 
> ngu*o*`i "superior" ho*n ca'c da^n to^.c A' kha'c; co' le~ vi` kinh te^', khoa 
> ho.c ho. tie^'n ho*n; nhu*ng ho. co' inferior complex (tu*. ti ma(.c ca?M?) 
> ddo^'i vo*'i ngu*o*`i da tra('ng! mo^.t pha^`n vi` ho. NO'I (xin nha^'n ma.nh 
> no'i) ngoa.i ngu*~ ke'm! va` thua dda~ bi. tra^.n khi dda'nh nhau vo*'i My~. 
> Nga`y nay co' mo^.t so^' chi'nh tri. gia Nha^.t co^' su*?a tha'i ddo^. na`y 
> ddo^'i vo*'i ngu*o*`i da tra('ng; dda.i bie^?u ca'ch suy nghi~ na`y ca'c ba'c 
> co' the^? ti`m ddo.c cuo^'n "The Japan that can say NO" , tuy nhie^n tha'i ddo^. 
> ddo^'i vo*'i ca'c da^n to^.c A' Cha^u kha'c to^i tha^'y cu~ng kho^ng co' gi` 
> thay ddo^?i la('m! Xu*a thi` DDa.i DDo^ng A' ba(`ng qua^n Su*.; Nay ba(`ng kinh 
> te^'! Mu.c tie^u co^' ddi.nh nhu*ng co' thay ddo^?i phu*o*ng pha'p. 
> Du` sao cu~ng pha?i co^ng nha^.n ca'i "ddu*'c ti'nh" cu?a ngu*o*`i NHa^.t la` 
> ye^u nu*o*'c Nha^.t; la`m vie^.c cha(m chi?, co' ta'c phong co^ng nghie^.p va` 
> nghie^m tu'c trong ky? lua^.t cu?a xa~ ho^.i NHa^.t .
>  DQ
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> 
> 
> >>Hi, anh Tuan,
> >>
> >>It should be:  "No'i chuye^.n vo+'i ca^'p tre^n va` kha'ch thi` hie^`n
> >>nhu+ me`o, no'i chuye^.n vo+'i ca^'p du+o+'i thi` du+~ nhu+ ho^?".
> >>
> >>Tha^n. Ca.
> >
> >
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Cha`o ca'c ba.n,

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Research thuo^.c Bo^. No^ng La^m Ngu+ Nghie^.p, Tsukuba Science City
ddu+o+.c ho+n 4 tha'ng, kho^ng bie^'t nhie^`u ve^` dda^'t nu+o+'c va` con
ngu+o+`i Nha^.t ne^n chi? co' va`i nha^.n xe't ru't ra khi la`m vie^.c
chung vo+'i ho.

DDo^`ng nghie^.p Nha^.t so^'ng ki'n dda'o, kho^ng giao thie^.p vo+'i
ai ngoa`i gio+` la`m vie^.c, nhu+ng ho. ra^'t tu+? te^'. Vo+. to^i bi.
tai na.n, go.i ddie^.n thoa.i nho+` ho. giu'p la` ho. dde^'n ngay. Ho.
kho^ng to? ra la` ra^'t quan ta^m nhu+ng sau ddo' ba?o ne^'u ca^`n thi`
cu+' go.i ddie^.n thoa.i.

Tu.i to^i le^n Tokyo, kho^ng bie^'t ddi ga xe ddie^.n na`o ve^` no+i
muo^'n dde^'n, mo^.t co^ be' Nha^.t kho^ng no'i ddu+o+.c Anh ngu+~
dda~ ta^.n ti`nh ddu+a dde^'n ta^.n no+i ro^`i co^ be' quay ve^` ga
cu?a mi`nh.

To^i va`o thu+ vie^.n cu?a Tsukuba University xin la`m the? ddo.c, thu?
thu+ nha^'t ddi.nh kho^ng cho vo+'i ly' do la` to^i kho^ng la` sinh vie^n
cu~ng cha(?ng la` tha^`y gia'o. Tu+'c qua' to^i go.i ddie^.n ho?i o^ng
xe^'p, o^ng tra? lo+`i ra(`ng dda.i ho.c chi? ca^'p mo^.t so^' the? cho
ca'c vie^.n nghie^n cu+'u, to^i co' the^? du`ng the? cu?a vie^.n chu+'
kho^ng ddu+o+.c ca^'p the? rie^ng. O^ng xe^'p xin lo^~i la` kho^ng ba'o
tru+o+'c cho to^i ve^` ddie^`u ddo'.

Khi to^i dde^'n thu+ vie^.n cu?a University of Information Science thi`
cu~ng bi. tu+` cho^'i. Nhu+ng khi ddu+a gia^'y to+` chu+'ng to? mi`nh
ddang la`m vie^.c cho mo^.t vie^.n nghie^n cu+'u ta.i tha`nh pho^' na`y
thi` ho. cha^'p nha^.n.

Trong co^ng vie^.c, ddo^`ng nghie^.p Nha^.t thu+o+`ng cho ra(`ng phu+o+ng
pha'p ho. theo la` hay ho+n ca?, nhu+~ng phu+o+ng a'n kha'c thi` hoa(.c
kho^ng hay hoa(.c "qua'" ddo+n gia?n. Tuy nhie^n, ho. sa(~n sa`ng khen
ngo+.i ne^'u ke^'t qua? cu?a ngu+o+`i kha'c to^'t ho+n.

Ngu+o+`i Nha^.t nga.i mo+? dda^`u cuo^.c no'i chuye^.n, nhu+ng ho. ra^'t
sa(~n lo`ng ne^'u mi`nh ba('t dda^`u tru+o+'c. Ne^'u ho. kho^ng no'i
ddu+o+.c Anh ngu+~, ga(.p mi`nh la` ho. tra'nh ngay ma(.c du` ho. hie^?u
ddu+o+.c.

No'i chung, ngu+o+`i Vie^.t nam thi'ch u+'ng mau vo+'i lo^'i so^'ng Nha^.t
ho+n western people la`m vie^.c tre^n dda^'t Nha^.t.

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