Re: Tro.ng nam kinh nu+~, Tam to`ng etc.

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> To^i cu+' tu+o+?ng "Tam to`ng" la` o+? nha` thi` phu.c to`ng bo^', la^'y
> cho^`ng thi` phu.c to`ng cho^`ng, cho^`ng che^'t thi` phu.c to`ng con (trai)
> To^i 0 bie^'t ro~ va^'n dde^` na`y nhu+ng theo cuo^.c so^'ng gia ddi`nh to^i
> va` ca'c gia ddi`nh ba.n be` thi` to^i nha^.n tha^'y xa~ ho^.i (ca'c cu. 
> trai) VN dda~ kho^n kheo' tro`ng va`o ~ ba` me., vo+. 3 ca'i vo`ng lua^n ly'
> dde^? ca'c o^ng tha ho^` a(n vu.ng ma` vo+. nha` va^~n pha?i trung trinh
> vo+'i mi`nh, tha^.m chi' cho to+'i khi cho^`ng che^'t cu~ng 0 ddu+o+.c tha^'t
> tie^'t ma` ta'i gia'. May ma('n thay dde^'n the^' he^. cu?a chu'ng to^i,
> ma^'y ba` chi. 0 ba` na`o bi. a~nh hu+o+?ng (tt) na`y va` nhu+~ng o^ng
> cho^`ng cu?a ma^'y ba? 0 o^ng na`o da'm lo+.i du.ng lua^n ly' dde^? ma` a(n
> vu.ng ca? (co' le? ma^'y o^?ng so+. bi. ma^'t 1/2 gia ta`i :-))
> No'i ra su+. tha^.t co' the^? la`m ma^'t lo`ng 1 va`i dda^'ng tu mi nam tu+? 
> tre^n list na`y. Xin xi' xoa' cho :-)
> Trinh

Cha`o ca'c ba'c,

To^i luo^n ca?m tha^'y ro+.n ve^` vie^.c du`ng tu+` cu?a 
ca'c ba'c\. Ne^'u ca'c ba'c kho^ng ro~, Kho^?ng gia'o co'
da.y ngu+o+`i ta "tro.ng nam kinh nu+~" hay kho^ng thi`
ca'c ba'c ddu+`ng co' no'i "dde^. tu+? Kho^?ng gia'o" ...
Ca'c ba'c cu~ng cho+' co' ma` va'c "da^n gian" ra dda^y,
"da^n gian" thi` ddu? loa.i tu+` loa.i gie^'t ngu+o+`i,
tro^.m ca('p dde^'n ba^.c tha'nh nha^n\. Ca'c ba'c cu~ng
cho+' co' ma` mang kinh nghie^.m ca' nha^n ra dda^y, the^'
gio+'i co' 5 ty? ngu+o+`i thi` co' 5 ty? kinh nghie^.m
ca' nha^n\.

Ba^y gio+` tra? lo+`i ca'c  My ve^` "tam to`ng".
Cha('c  cha('n la` to^i hie^?u "to`ng" kha'c ba'c
nhie^`u la('m. Nhu+ng ba'c muo^'n hie^?u the^' thi`
tu`y ba'c. 

* To`ng phu.: va^ng lo+`i cha me. (kho^ng co' vie^'t
ma^~u va`o dda^y, nhu+ng phu-phu. la` 1 trong 5 lua^n,
ne^n va^ng lo+`i cha tu+'c la` va^ng lo+`i me.). Va^ng
lo+`i kho^ng co' nghi~a cha me. ba?o che^'t thi` pha?i
che^'t\. Ca'c ba'c co' the^? ddo.c chuye^.n ve^` Ta(ng
Sa^m thi` ro~\.

* To`ng phu: cu`ng vo+'i cho^`ng\. Co' nghi~a la^'y cho^`ng
thi` pha?i cu`ng cho^`ng xa^y du+.ng gia ddi`nh, cho+'
kho^ng pha?i la^'y cho^`ng chi? lo ca'i tha^n mi`nh, tha^y
ke^. gia ddi`nh\.

* To`ng tu+?: nuo^i con. Cho^`ng che^'t thi` pha?i thay cho^`ng
nuo^i con, cho+' kho^ng pha?i qua(?ng con lie^'m la' ngoa`i
cho+. dde^? ddi vo+'i giai\. Kho^ng co' ai ca^'m phu. nu+~
ta'i gia' khi cho^`ng che^'t ca?, nhu+ng co' la^'y cho^`ng
mo+'i thi` va^~n pha?i co' tra'ch nhie^.m nuo^i con cho^`ng\.

Tuy va^.y Nho gia'o co' pha^n bie^.t nam nu+~\. Ma.nh tu+?
ba?o "phu phu. pha^n bie^.t", co' nghi~a la` cho^`ng pha?i
ra cho^`ng, vo+. pha?i ra vo+., kho^ng co' lo^.n xo^.n lung
tung, vi' nhu+ khi la`m ti`nh thi` cho^`ng pha?i la` cho^`ng,
vo+. pha?i la` vo+., kho^ng the^? thay ddo^?i cho nhau ddu+o+.c\.
Tu+. nhie^n dda~ pha^n bie^.t nam, nu+~ thi` xa~ ho^.i cu~ng
pha?i pha^n bie^.t nam, nu+~, kho^ng the^? dde^? nam la`m nu+~,
nu+~ la`m nam ddu+o+.c. Pha^n bie^.t nam nu+~ kho^ng co' nghi~a
la` tro.ng nam khinh nu+~\.

Tra^`n Minh Tie^'n