Ba'o VN: nhu+~ng co^ ga'i Vie^.t la^'y cho^`ng Dda`i Loan ddang xin ly ho^n

[Dam Son <son@fermi.phys.washington.edu>]

Ba'o Thanh Nie^n 27/3:

* Ca^u chuye^.n cu?a nhu+~ng co^ ga'i Vie^.t la^'y cho^`ng Dda`i Loan
ddang xin ly ho^n va` ve^` nu+o+'c

Tru+o+'c cu+?a va(n pho`ng va(n hoa' va` Kinh te^' Dda`i Ba('c (VP
VHKTDdB) ta.i TP.HCM, ha`ng nga`y va^~n co' ddo^ng dda?o ca'c cha`ng trai
Dda`i Loan va` ba.n ga'i Vie^.t Nam no^.p ho^` so+ xin ke^'t ho^n. Trung 
bi`nh mo^~i nga`y VP VHKTDdB to^? chu+'c pho?ng va^'n khoa?ng 25 ca(.p.
The^' nhu+ng, tu+` 6 tha'ng cuo^'i na(m 1996 tro+? la.i dda^y, nga`y ca`ng
nhie^`u ca'c co^ ga'i Vie^.t Nam la^'y cho^`ng Dda`i Loan le^n VPVNKT  
Vie^.t Nam o+? Dda`i Ba('c to? y' muo^'n xin ly di. va` ve^` nu+o+'c vo+'i
nhie^`u ly' do kha'c nhau...

Co^ H sinh na(m 1972, thu+o+`ng tru' ta.i Hu+o+ng lo^. 14, P19 qua^.n Ta^n
Bi`nh, mo+'i la^'y cho^`ng Dda.i Loan ho^`i na(m ngoa'i. Cuo^'i na(m, co^
ve^` nha` cho+i vo+'i ca'i thai trong bu.ng, ddi.nh se~ o+?  Vie^.t Nam
luo^n vi` dda~ qua' ha~i hu`ng vo+'i ca?nh so^'ng bi. nha` cho^`ng
ngu+o+.c dda~i o+? no+i dda^'t kha'ch que^ ngu+o+`i, song cho^`ng co^
vie^'t thu+ sang doa.  se~ kie^.n, kho^ng cho ly ho^n..., H so+. qua',
vo^.i va~ tro+? la.i Dda`i Loan ngay. Ca^u chuye^.n co^ ke^? du+o+'i dda^y
lie^.u co' go'p pha^`n ca?nh ti?nh mo^.t so^' co^ ga'i Vie^.t Nam kha'c  
ddang o^m mo^.ng la^'y cho^`ng Dda`i Loan, xa^y du+.ng mo^.t cuo^.c so^'ng
gia`u sang o+?  xu+' ngu+o+`i...?

Nha` H ra^'t nghe`o ne^n co^ hy vo.ng la^'y mo^.t o^ng cho^`ng Dda`i Loan 
se~ giu'p ddo+~ pha^`n na`o cho gia ddi`nh va` ba?n tha^n cu~ng thoa't ra
kho?i ca'i nghe`o. Co^ ddu+o+.c mo^.t ngu+o+`i dda`n o^ng mai mo^'i vo+'i
mo^.t "Va(n pho`ng mo^i gio+'i la^'y cho^`ng Dda`i Loan (?)".  Mo^.t
nga`y, ho. he.n co^ to+'i "va(n pho`ng", da(.n pha?i trang ddie^?m dde.p.
Khi H to+'i ddo', dda tha^'y co' khoa?ng 20 - 30 co^ tra.c tuo^?i mi`nh
ddo+.i sa(~n. Thi` ra dda^y la` mo^.t cuo^.c coi ma('t ! Va`i ngu+o+`i
dda`n o^ng Dda`i Loan ddi to+'i ddi lui lu+.a...  vo+.. Co^ na`o bie^'t  
chu't i't tie^'ng Hoa ddu+o+.c "u+u tie^n"  ho+n. Co^ cu~ng ddu+o+.c cho.n
ngay trong la^`n a^'y. Cho^`ng co^, 40 tuo^?i, ho'i dda^`u... Anh ta
gio+'i thie^.u la` ky~ su+ xa^y du+.ng, sau na`y trong ho^` so+ cu~ng khai
nhu+ va^.y. Ho. thoa? thua^.n la^'y nhau. Vo+'i so^' tie^`n (3.000 USD)
da^~n cu+o+'i, nha` H xa^y la.i tu+` ma'i tranh lu.p xu.p, mua sa('m ddo^`
dda.c... Khi sang Dda`i Loan, H mo+'i vo+~ le~ cho^`ng mi`nh la`... tho+.
ho^`. Mo+'i ve^` dde^'n nha` cho^`ng o+? mo^.t vu`ng no^ng tho^n he?o
la'nh, H dda~ bi. me.  cho^`ng lo^.t he^'t tu+ trang, ddem ca^'t. Tie^`n
ba.c co^ kho^ng ddu+o+.c giu+~, ha`ng nga`y me. cho^`ng ddi cho+., kho^ng
cho co^ ra kho?i nha`.  Ne^'u co^ ddi, la^.p tu+'c ba` go.i ddie^.n
thoa.i, ke^u ngu+o+`i theo do~i. Cho^`ng co^ la.i be^nh me.. Du` co' thai
nhu+ng co^ va^~n kho^ng ddu+o+.c a(n uo^'ng dda^`y ddu?, luo^n bi. coi 
nhu+ ngu+o+`i a(n ke? o+?  trong nha`. Cu+.c cha(?ng dda~, mo^.t la^`n H  
tro^'n dde^'n nha` ngu+o+`i ba.n ga'i Vie^.t Nam cu~ng la^'y cho^`ng Dda.i
Loan, co^ na`y xui H xin ve^` Vie^.t Nam tha(m nha` ro^`i ti`m ca'ch o+?  
la.i luo^n...

Tru+o+'c Te^'t Ddinh Su+?u, Trung ta^m tu+ va^'n ti`nh ye^u - ho^n nha^n -
gia ddi`nh cu?a Ho^.i LHPN TP.HCM dda~ tie^'p 3 co^ ga'i Vie^.t Nam
khoa?ng 24, 25 tuo^?i, mo+'i la^'y cho^`ng Dda`i Loan ddu+o+.c 6-12 tha'ng
nay, nhu+ng dde^'n xin lua^.t su+ chi? giu'p ca'ch thu+'c... ly ho^n
hoa(.c la`m the^' na`o dde^?  thoa't kho?i ca?nh so^'ng hie^.n ta.i, bi.
ngu+o+.c ddai, coi nhu+ ngu+o+`i o+?... Cho^`ng cu?a ca'c co^ DdTTH (tru'
ta.i ddu+o+`ng Phan Dda(ng Lu+u, QBT), VTTT (tru' ta.i ddu+o+`ng CMT8, Q3)
va` PDdTC (tru' ta.i Q11) dde^`u co' tri`nh ddo^. va(n hoa' ra^'t tha^'p,
tha^.m chi' tha^'p ho+n ca?... vo+. ( ca'c co^ co' tri`nh ddo^.  va(n hoa'
ca^'p 2). Ca? 3 cuo^.c ho^n nha^n na`y dde^`u qua mo^i gio+'i. TH bi.
cho^`ng "ca^`m tu`" o+? nha` suo^'t nga`y, kho^ng ddu+o+.c ra ngoa`i,
pha?i la`m lu.ng nhu+ con o+?. Ne^'u pha't hie^.n TH ra ngoa`i, la^.p
tu+'c anh ta dda'nh co^. Do ba^'t ddo^`ng ngo^n ngu+~ ne^n hai vo+.
cho^`ng TH kho^ng sao thu+o+ng lu+o+.ng gi` ddu+o+.c. Co`n TT ? Sang
dde^'n Dda`i Loan, co^ la^.p tu+'c pha?i nha^.n la~nh nhie^.m vu. na(.ng
ne^` :  cha(m so'c me. cho^`ng dda~ gia` nua la^?m ca^?m va` mo^.t o^ng  
anh cho^`ng ma('c be^.nh ta^m tha^`n.  Tie^`n ba.c cho^`ng co^ giu+~   
he^'t, kho^ng cho chi tie^u gi`, chi? nuo^i a(n. "To^i chi? la` con o+?
kho^ng ho+n kho^ng ke'm". Cho^`ng co^ ngu+o+`i Qua?ng Cha^u, co^ la.i    
kho^ng bie^'t tie^'ng Qua?ng, chi? bie^'t kho'c va` ho^'i ha^.n dda~ tu+. 
nguye^.n lao tha^n va`o cuo^.c so^'ng na`y. Cho^`ng cu?a T.C. la.i cha(?ng
co' nghe^` nghie^.p gi`. Gio^'ng nhu+ TH va` TT, C cu~ng chi.u tha^n
pha^.n no^ le^., bi. ngu+o+.c dda~i tu+` phi'a cho^`ng va` gia ddi`nh nha`
cho^`ng. "Tie^'ng ta(m kho^ng bie^'t, to^i cha(?ng cho^ng ca^.y ddu+o+.c  
va`o ai:.

Ca? 3 co^ ga'i tre^n dde^`u kho^ng muo^'n co' con, bo+?i co' con ddo^`ng
nghi~a vo+'i vie^.c ddu+o+.c nha^.p quo^'c ti.ch Dda`i Loan va` pha?i o+?
be^n a^'y vi~nh vie^~n. Khi ke^'t ho^n xong trong khi cho+` ddu+o+.c
nha^.p ti.ch, ca'c co^ ddi la`m da^u, la`m vo+. theo visa du li.ch tu+` 6
dde^'n 12 tha'ng. Trong lu'c ve^` la.i Vie^.t Nam cho+` xin visa mo+'i, 3
co^ dda~ ti`m mo.i ca'ch dde^? ddu+o+.c o+? la.i luo^n ma` kho^ng bi.     
cho^`ng hoa(.c nha` cho^`ng ca?n tro+?, kie^.n tu.ng... Song ca^u tra?
lo+`i la` :  Ra^'t kho'. Mo^.t ca'n bo^.  tu+ va^'n cu?a Trung ta^m tu+   
va^'n TY-HN-GDd cu?a Ho^.i LHPN TP.HCM cho bie^'t trong tru+o+`ng ho+.p
mo^.t be^n (vo+. hoa(.c cho^`ng) xin ly ho^n, ho. pha?i chu+'ng minh
ddu+o+.c nhu+~ng ma^u thua^~n tra^`m tro.ng trong khoa?ng tho+`i gian
chung so^'ng. Song ca? 3 tru+o+`ng ho+.p tre^n mo+'i ke^' ho^n tu+` 6 - 12
tha'ng, chu+a ddu? tho+`i gian dde^? co' the^? xe't thua^.n ti`nh ly ho^n.
Va?  la.i, cu~ng kho^ng co' gia^'y to+` xa'c nha^.n cu?a ddi.a phu+o+ng
no+i cho^`ng ca'c co^ cu+ ngu. ra(`ng ca'c co^ bi. dda'nh dda^.p, ngu+o+.c
dda~i... "Ra^'t bu+'c xu'c tru+o+'c ca^u chuye^.n cu?a ca'c co^ song
chu'ng to^i chi? bie^'t khuye^n ca'c ga(.p lua^.t su+ dde^? tri`nh ba`y   
the^m, hoa(.c gia? vie^.c bi. dda'nh dda^.p, ngu+o+.c ddai va^~n co`n
tie^'p die^~n, ca'c co^ ha~y lie^n la.c vo+'i ca'c co+ quan dda.i die^.n  
cu?a Vie^.t Nam o+? Dda`i Loan dde^? xin tu+ va^'n, giu'p ddo+~..." - Ca'n
bo^. na`y cho bie^'t.

Trong mo^.t cuo^.c tra? lo+`i pho?ng va^'n Ba'o thanh nie^n ho^`i dda^`u
na(m 1997 vu+`a qua.  O^ng Tra^`n Hu+~u Nghi~a, Pho' chu? nhie^.m VPVHKT
Vie^.t Nam ta.i Dda`i Ba('c cho bie^'t, phi'a Vie^.t Nam kho^ng the^? can
thie^.p ddu+o+.c gi` ne^'u nhu+~ng tru+o+`ng ho+.p nhu+ tre^n kho^ng co' 
gia^'y to+` xa'c nha^.n cu?a ddi.a phu+o+ng no+i ho. o+?. Tra'nh vie^.c
kie^.n cao tu+` phi'a cho^`ng ca'c co^, VP cu~ng kho^ng the^? gia?i
quye^'t cho ca'c co^ ve^` nu+o+'c ma` kho^ng co' su+. ddo^`ng y' cu?a    
cho^`ng...

Ro~ ra`ng a?o tu+o+?ng ve^` su+. gia`u co' va` ha.nh phu'c ba(`ng ca'ch
vo^.i va`ng ke^'t ho^n vo+'i nhu+~ng ngu+o+`i dda`n o^ng Dda`i Loan cu?a 4
tru+o+`ng ho+.p tre^n dda^y dda~ su.p ddo^? trong mo^.t tho+`i gian
nga('n, ma` co' ho^'i ha^.n cu~ng kho^ng the^? cu+'u va~n. Dda^y cu~ng la`
ba`i ho.c cho nhie^`u co^ ga'i kha'c ddang ti`m ca'ch "ddo^?i ddo+`i"
ba(`ng con ddu+o+`ng na`y.

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