Re: Love and faithfulness: A reflection

[Hong Lam Vu <vuh000@goofy.zdv.Uni-Mainz.de>]

Hi folks,

Ca'c ba'c no'i chuye^.n nghie^m tu'c qua' khie^'n mi`nh cu~ng pha?i su+?a
la.i gio.ng cho chi?nh chu va` ba(.t thie^.p thu+a chuye^.n cu`ng ca'c
ba'c.

Mi`nh nghi~ co' le~ ta pha?i pha^n bie^.t ro~ ra`ng 2 levels: macro va`
micro khi la`m analyse ve^` love. Ne^'u kho^ng pha^n bie^.t ro~ 2 ta^`m
mu+'c nhu+ va^.y thi` ta de^~ "dda'nh lo^.n con dden" la('m, khi ta ddi.nh
a'p du.ng mo^.t "ddi.nh lua^.t" tho^'ng ke^ (ta^`m macro) cho nhu+~ng
truo+`ng ho+.p cu. the^? (ta^`m micro), va` nguo+.c la.i.

O+? ta^`m macro, trong khi cho+` ddo+.i ba'c Zu~ng va` ba'c Aiviet gia?ng
cho ta ve^` dynamic system (o^` ma` sao ba'c Aiviet re'o ra't ca? ho.ng
nhu+ng ba'c Zu~ng va^~n kho^ng tha^'y le^n tie^'ng nhi?, hay ba` chi. ho.
cu?a ba'c mo+'i luye^.n dduo+.c chie^u ve'o tai ?) mi`nh ha~y cu+' tho?a
ma~n vo+'i ca'c ceteris paribus models va^.y.

Cha(?ng ha.n ne^'u coi intensity of love la` bie^'n phu. thuo^.c, time la`
bie^'n ddo^.c la^.p, ca'c factors kha'c = constant, thi` co' le~ sau khi
kha?o sa't mo^.t so^' ddo^i ti`nh nha^n ddu? lo+'n, ta se~ ve~ dduo+.c 1
pha^n bo^' Chi^2 vo+'i degree of freedom = 4.

Trong truo+`ng ho+.p independent variable la` distance thi` theo mi`nh
cu~ng la` 1 pha^n bo^' chi^2 vo+'i df = 2. Cu+' ta.m lie^`u ddu+a ra
hypothesis the^'.

Co`n khi ta bo? ta^`m macro, ngo' xuo^'ng ta^`m micro, no+i ma` ddo^'i
tuo+.ng kho^ng co`n la` nhu+~ng aggregation nu+~a, ma` la` tu+`ng
individual thi` "vo+ ddu~a ca? na('m" kho^ng co`n la` mo^.t ca'ch thi'ch
ho+.p.

Theo mi`nh thi` la.i pha?i chia ra 2 "la't ca('t cu?a ha`nh ddo^.ng": 1
la` strategic action, va` 2 la` "institutionalized" action. Ddo' la` 2
"bo^. pha^.n ca^'u tha`nh" cu?a ha`nh ddo^.ng mo^.t con nguo+`i.

Ne^'u xe't pha^`n strategic thi` love ddu'ng la` 1 prisoner's dilemma. Vu.
na`y ba'c na`o co' problem xin mo+`i ho?i y' kie^'n ba'c Zu~ng.

Co`n xe't pha6`n "institutionalized" thi` tho+`i ddai. ta ddang so^'ng
ba^y gio+` cha? bie^'t la^'y gi` la`m chua^?n, entropy (sorry, entropy
again) qu'a cao, instable value system, Vu. na`y ta pha?i xin ba'c aiviet
co^' va^'n.

tho^i mi`nh pha?i ddi ba6y gio+`, he.n ca'c ba'c ho^m sau nhe'.

Cheers,
VHLam.